Products under $50 worth trying out

Educator Rune Longoria was kind enough to guest post for us, and we are so excited to hear their thoughts!

Have y’all won the lottery yet? Me either! Fingers crossed though! Do you have the kind of income where you can just drop hundreds of dollars on a new type of toy without a second thought? If so, amazing! I celebrate your good fortune, but I admit it’s not something I (and most folks I know) can relate to. For many of us, sex toys are at the bottom of a long list that starts with “Mortgage/Rent”, then continues with “Utilities, Student Loans, Health Insurance, Diapers, Groceries, etc.” and usually way way wayyyyy at the bottom (especially if you’re a parent!) the list may include “an affordable sex toy”.

Sexual expression is a human right. If you’re not harming someone else, you should be able to explore and express those desires if you so choose. You also shouldn’t be exiled to stinky, toxic, battery operated, bullshit toys because you happen to struggle in a society designed to stifle socioeconomic upward mobility. But for many folks, the vast array of products, materials, and prices can be intimidating. Add in cultural indoctrination from a young age that “more $$$= better value!” and some first-time toy buyers can end up making hasty decisions that ultimately end up as expensive disappointments.

Now, on one hand I’m grateful y’all are leaving the cucumbers at the grocery store alone. And while the bathtub faucet is reliable as rain, it’s still not great for the planet, your water bill, or your pH balance. Save desperate measures for desperate situations. Hopefully this compilation of fantastic finds under $50 helps you feel a little less confused, frustrated, and overwhelmed.

First Bullet:

Pretty in Pink from Evolved

If you’re making the jump from manual masturbation to mechanical, this is a wonderful launch pad. With a single button control you (or a partner) can operate this toy with ease, switching through the 7 speeds with just the pressure of a finger. It’s also rechargeable, submersible, and like most Evolved Novelties backed by a five-year warranty. If you’re already a well-seasoned toy consumer, the $32 price makes it a wonderful gift or vacation toy. And by vacation, I mean a camping trip at the nearest beach 2 hours away with a cooler full of sandwich fixings and a couple of Dos Equis tall boys. What? Are you gonna bring your fancy $130 suction vibe to the beach? Where there is SAND? Nambe. Don’t be silly.

First Atypical External Vibe:

Slay Pleaser from CalExotics

Not all of us have the ability to grip a small, cylindrical bullet vibe. Sometimes the pointed shaped of a bullet vibe doesn’t provide the necessary contact with our tissues to achieve climax.

Trying a product with more surface area or rumbly vibrations can help those of us struggling to “vibe” with bullets. Since the stingray shape of the Slay Pleaser allows more contact with the wondrous double wishbone shape of the clitoral nerve network, it can be a more effective tool to hit the glorious heights of ecstasy. This green cutie is available for $40 and comes with a one year warranty from Calexotics.

I also really like that it’s quite comfortable tucked behind a strap-on harness for additional stimulation of the wearer! It’s shape and 10 speeds make it a delightful toy to share with your partner. If your partner has a penis (and confirms consent) you can tuck it behind their testicles while performing oral sex. Try varying the direction or pressure you apply the toy to their perineum. Some folks like a constant presence, some like rhythmic strokes. Just remember if your partner expresses discomfort or lack of enjoyment stop the action immediately!

First Set of Kegel Balls:

Rianne S Pussy Playballs Kegel Training Set

Okay so I am a huge fan of pelvic floor exercise, and not just because I’ve gotten into fisting in the last couple years. According to the Mayo Clinic, “Kegel exercises strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, which support the uterus, bladder, small intestine and rectum. You can do Kegel exercises, also known as pelvic floor muscle training, just about any time.” The link connects you to further instructions on isolating your kegel muscles and different exercises to strengthen this region.

But the benefits are basically more bladder control (cancel your subscription to the Pee When You Sneeze Club!) and sexual satisfaction. Yes, we can do these exercises anytime for free, but some of us benefit from designated tools and a regimen (me, a person with ADHD).

You can use a little water-based lube to insert one or two balls inside your vagina, with or without the silicone holder. Some folks prefer the silicone handle to make removal easier. Personally, for myself alone, I enjoy penetrative intercourse while wearing two loose kegel balls. The balls end up rolling around and massaging areas my partner or a dildo may not reach normally. It provides a feeling of fullness I really really like and takes up room in my vagina to provide a snugger fit. Depending on your own health, anatomy, and the oversight of a medical professional this may not be recommended for you.

Checking in with a medical professional is heavily advised, especially because improper kegel exercises can be harmful, just like an improper form while weightlifting at a gym can be harmful. If you get all-clear, then this multi weighted pack with a 2-year warranty and a lockable bag for only $32 is an obvious choice.

First Topical Arousal Product:

ON Arousal Oil (single use ampoule) from Sensuva

I’ve been a fan of this arousal oil since… 2015? 2016? This is a fabulously versatile product you can use to stimulate and enhance sensations in the clit, labia, external anal areas, and nipples.

Depending on how brave your partner is (and whether they have a penis) you can dilute it in your palm with a little plain water based lube and use it to start off a slippery handjob that transitions into oral seamlessly. Likewise, your partner can rub a drop on their lips before performing oral on you, administering tender kisses below the belt while transferring the product to your delicate tissues. It provides a warm buzzy sensation, and does not contain L-Aginine or Menthol.

I also appreciate that it does not contain preservatives. Some of us with picky pussies and/or compromised immune systems have difficulty maintaining a healthy pH balance, so avoiding parabens or other iffy antimicrobials ensures a more comfortable morning after a wild night. As long as you don’t have a tree nut allergy (sweet almond oil is the first ingredient listed), issues with cinnamon (cinnamon essential oil is the second) or are not currently pregnant (it also contains rosemary oil which can cause uterine contractions), then a $4 sample packet is an inexpensive toe dip in to the water of stimulating creams, gels, and oils. Bonus points if you dab some on before a trip to the flea market or Costco. Really gives a lazy Sunday afternoon a certain zing!

First Vibrating Anal Plug:

Power Gem Vibrating Crystal Probe from CalExotics

I almost didn’t include this item. Not because I don’t enjoy it, not because I don’t trust in its quality, or because I despise adorably designed anal toys. Quite frankly, I just worry that my ass is a hungry-hungry-hippo and my sense of an “average size” plug is slightly warped.

Then I realized there is a Petite version of this product for $4.00 less ($48 vs $44) and is about half an inch shorter.

Both versions still have 10 amazing speeds, are rechargeable and silicone coated (my preference for anal play) AND both are controlled by the gem accent at the base. That’s right, a big shiny diamond in your booty is pressed to help you orgasm.

Add a penis, dildo or fist vaginally and see what kind of beast y’all unleash. Depending on your level of comfort you might also use the plug to prepare your ass for a partner to penetrate you later that day. With a one year warranty behind the product, you can frolic to your heart’s content whilst wearing your sparkly plug. Y’all forget needing a “kick in the rear” to tackle the laundry laying on that random chair far from your closet- you may discover exactly the motivation you needed just by adding a subtle (or hella powerful) buzz in the backdoor.

I hope these suggestions give you an idea of what brands and models are a safe venture into a new part of the grand map of adult products. Regardless of income, we all deserve support towards quality items that enhance our sensual intimacy, either with ourselves or some lucky chosen humans. Pleasure should not become an additional class barrier.


*Rune Longoria is a queer, trans, Latin@ sex educator and intimacy consultant based on the border of Texas and Mexico. With 10 years of community health, LGBTQIA+, reproductive justice advocacy and education behind them, their goal is to empower and inspire ALL people to claim their pleasure radically and acknowledge consent openly, in every avenue of life. They also would appreciate including that asexuality is a spectrum that deserves acknowledgment and support within the pleasure industry.


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Toys to enjoy for folks who don’t always find toys that fit.

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Educator Rune Longoria was kind enough to guest post for us, and we are so excited to hear their thoughts!

I don’t know about you, dear reader, but personally I’ve spent 18 plus years trying to both change my body to social norms as well as learn to love this delightful flesh suit despite social norms.

Some days are easier, brighter than others.

Like, when you realize your favorite shirt doesn’t fit the same so you use scissors and a paint scraper to turn it in to a cool tattered crop top and you wear it gut out next weekend and everyone compliments you

Some moments are unexpectedly bitter.

Like when you randomly remember that one partner who once upon a time commented their “last lover’s labia didn’t look like *that*”

Whatever kind of day you’re having, whatever way your sex life is leaning, you deserve affirmation, love and support. Especially when your partner is shopping for you or you’re picking a toy for solo time.

It’s wonderful when toy reviews of folks who may also be beautifully unique manifestations of humanity can give us a greater understanding of how to creatively utilize toys AND apply these techniques to ourselves & our partners. Yet when you search for a super hyped toy, it can also suck feeling alienated by the descriptions of products by people that do not resemble you AT ALL, that describe intimate encounters that make NO SENSE to you, that give you ZERO real answers on how to feel in touch with your own pleasure, my only suggestion is…

Let that shit be.

I’m not saying let it go. Therapy taught me it has never been that simple.

I’m asking you to breathe.

In.

Out.

And then…

Three times more.

Are we feeling okay? I hope so. Now whatever it is:

Let that shit be.

Like the screaming child three aisles over at the grocery store.

Like the sticky spot to the left of the elevator on your floor.

Like the chicken pock scar you just noticed next to your eyebrow.

Let that shit be.

It’s not your responsibility to fulfill a particular fantasy. An orgasm for someone else is not a burden you were destined to carry.

Like we tell our nearest and dearest furry pets when they have something in their mouth they shouldn’t: Drop it. Leave it alone.

Find what IS meant for you. Search for what does bring you joy.

I promise folks who want to share space with you intimately but aren’t down to accommodate reasonable requests (using protection, toys, adding fingers, using supportive pillows, etc) do not deserve the miraculous gifts of your body and time.

Fuck. That.

Do. Not. Fuck. Them.

I promise there are plenty of people who will worship the amazing body you inhabit. While you are working to make contact with them, or your own inner deity, or just researching for products to use with your adoring partner, I’d like to recommend a couple products that may achieve super star status with yourself and those special someones.

Satisfyer Pro2

For only $49.95, this champagne-colored cutie with a conveniently extended handle is a general hit for folks of all sizes! The opening for clitoral stimulation is wider than a lot of other products providing external air pulsation, the material is plush while still firm enough to maintain a supportive structure around the clitoris. The accommodating shape for folks with extra tissue in that area ensures they also receive these fabulous sensations regardless of position (may I recommend a pillow under your hips with the Satisfyer Pro 2 positioned underneath you? Adding a dildo, fist, or penis are all wonderful!)

I like that you can still enjoy it regardless of the direction the handle is positioned too. It comes with a 1 year warranty from the manufacturer, Satisfyer, but the warranty does not include skydiving or scuba diving unless explicitly stated.

French Kiss Casanova Flickering Tongue Stimulator with Vibrating Bullet

I LOVE that this product has separate motors for each function. The flicking tongue with different intensities for external enjoyment AND a multi speed vibrating bullet for internal stimulation are incredible combined- no doubt. But I can personally attest they make wonderful additions to actions you already enjoy on your own (or with a partner). You like the clit action with your favorite dildo but the dangling silicone vibe gets in the way? You can insert it for additional anal stimulation OR utilize it against your own nipples. Does your partner have a penis? Ask for consent to tuck the vibrating bullet on a low speed behind their balls while performing oral sex. Or use the flicking function on yourself while giving head to your partner! Your only limit is your imagination! Your ticket to unlimited versatility is just $74!

Fantasy for Her Ultimate Pleasure

Okay I adore this fucking toy. It can suck my clit and lips, eat my ass with a vigorous tongue flick, and penetrate me with a strong 10 speed vibrator. As we say in my hometown “a la madre!” My man is more than willing to create a suction over my labia with his mouth while flicking my clit with his tongue. He’s great at it! But men are human. And humans are not robots. So they need rest sometimes… But this toy? You will call it quits before this handheld powerhouse does! Phenomenal on your own. Then when your partner’s jaw is exhausted and their tongue is a useless lump, slurring their words after an extensive session of oral, pull out this beauty. The $162 price is intimidating to some but considering it’s a rechargeable penetrative toy, has 3 patterns of suction for the vulva, 7 velocities of tongue action, and 10 vibration modes PLUS a 30-day warranty from Pipedream Product, it’s a no-brainer.

*The description says waterproof, but I’ve discovered from my own experience that the toy is purely splash proof. So you can cleanse it in the sink while it’s turned off. I do not recommend using the toy in a shower while turned on.


*Rune Longoria is a queer, trans, Latin@ sex educator and intimacy consultant based on the border of Texas and Mexico. With 10 years of community health, LGBTQIA+, reproductive justice advocacy and education behind them, their goal is to empower and inspire ALL people to claim their pleasure radically and acknowledge consent openly, in every avenue of life. They also would appreciate including that asexuality is a spectrum that deserves acknowledgment and support within the pleasure industry.


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How Do You Start… You Know… Touching Yourself – presented by Coffee@Dawn

Photo by Darius Bashar on Unsplash

 

Welcome to a safe space where we can chat about sexual health and wellness, candid talk with direct language and straightforward responses to your questions. 

 

“Touching yourself in this way is a revolutionary act. It’s bold, powerful, valuable! …This is your body– yours to know, yours to please, yours to love.”

L’s question: How do you start… you know… touching yourself?

Such a brave question!

How do you feel about your body? That’s a good question to ask yourself. Some women only touch themselves to wash in the shower and that’s it. Before we can get down with the big O, we might have to first practice some sensual self love.

Try standing in front of the mirror and giving yourself compliments. Start fully clothed if that is easier, or maybe in your favorite underwear (more on lingerie in another post).

“OOoooooh, woman! You are hot!”

“Your hair is gorgeous today.”

Sashay away and back again. Toss your hair. Wink at yourself. Be playful. Be silly. Flirt with that woman in the mirror. She is sexy!

“What are you doing later?”

“Meet me back here after ________, and I’ll treat you like the queen you are.”

Now plan for your date with that fine woman, and don’t stand her up!

Pick up some flowers while you’re out because she deserves them. Take a shower. Shave if that’s your thing. Pour a beverage, have a snack, and meet yourself in bed.

Don’t go directly to the clitoris! Take it easy. Slow down. Take some time running your hands over the surface of all your skin.

Start on your face with your fingertips. Gently touch your cheeks and your lips. Did you know your ears are erogenous zones filled with sensory receptors? Spend some time there… touching. Imagine warm lips… soft breath… teeth nibbling on your earlobes. Mmmmm…

Move your hand to your neck. Hover there. Close enough to feel the heat between your hand and your throat. The tiniest amount of pressure on the arteries under your jawline can feel exhilarating. Press gently. Feel your pulse. Is it quickening? 

Now your arms. Use one hand to caress your opposite arm. Drag your fingers gently across the surface, or harder if you like. Experiment with pressure or nails. What feels good? What do you like? Take time on your wrists and the inside of your elbows. These are sensitive spots. Imagine your fingers are someone else’s tongue. (Anyone! It’s your imagination.)

Once you’ve taken the time on both arms, move your hands to your breasts. Cup them in your palms. They are perfect! Shhhhhhh… Quiet that critical voice; there’s no room for that here. Take the time to explore them. Press them together, massage them, squeeze them. What feels good? How does it feel when you touch your nipples? When you brush your palms over them… when you roll them between your fingers, softly, then pinching them between your thumb and forefinger. Take your time. How do you like it? 

That beverage you brought with you to the bed… is it beaded with condensation? If you run your fingers along the side of the glass, are they wet? Cold? How does it feel to touch your skin now? Is there an ice cube that you could use to draw a line from your chest to your navel? How do the drops feel tracing rivulets down your sides? Don’t worry about the sheets. They will dry. Stick with the sensations of your beautiful body.

You deserve this. You are worth it. Push your fingers between your legs and separate your thighs. Those delicious thighs. Spread them apart. Treat them with the same care and love that you did your arms. Gentle fingertips or nails grazing the surface… squeezing the flesh in your hands. If you like sharper sensations, try a pinch or a slap in this delicate area. You get to decide what you like. No one is here to judge you. This is your date with your body. Shame is not invited. 

Try rolling onto your stomach. Lie flat or arch your back to raise your hips off the bed, and reach around to the back. All that ass is yours. Love it. Right now, it is the most beautiful ass in the world. Tell yourself. 

Are you flexible? Can you caress your legs? Reach down or up or around and give them the love that they deserve. Now is not the time to criticize or critique. Roll around in the sheets. Feel the texture on your skin. Enjoy this moment with yourself. Love your beautiful body.

We haven’t even gotten to the vulva– the place where your clitoris lives. That is a whole blog to itself! But we will. We will do it together next time. But don’t wait for me; by all means, continue the exploration without my help. Take your time; try different pressures and speeds. Investigate, experiment. Maybe report back and let me know how it went.

Touching yourself in this way is a revolutionary act. It’s bold, powerful, valuable! Maybe someone in your life has shamed you for it. They can f*ck off. This is your body– yours to know, yours to please, yours to love.

Knowing your own body and what you like has so many benefits! It is a form of self-care and self-love, yes. It relieves stress, helps you sleep, releases endorphins… It will also make you a better lover to another. 

Honestly, it will make you more powerful outside of the bedroom as well. If you make time for sensuous self-dates like the one above, you will carry the confidence you are inevitably developing into all areas of your life. Start with you.

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In Their Bodies, Bedrooms, and Beyond!

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As an educator and a coach, I make an effort to be inclusive in my respect and support of underrepresented sexuality populations: lesbian, bisexual, trans, poly, non-binary, kinky, swinger, BDSM-affilitated women are all invited to have coffee at my table. There is room for all of us.

The information contained within this blog Coffee@Dawn is not a substitute for legal or professional advice such as from an attorney, medical doctor, psychiatrist, or therapist. Coffee@Dawn holds no responsibility or liability for the actions, choices, or decisions taken by the reader.

Sweat Your Way to Better Sex! – Your Guide to the Orgasmic Power of Kegels

KegelIn the words of Queen Britney, You better work, b*tch! When you’re getting your sweat on, don’t forget the most important muscles of all – the ones in your vajayjay (and we’re pretty sure Ms. Spears would agree).

Kegel exercises are as trendy as rose gold jewelry and hot yoga classes, and for good reason. This simple pelvic floor workout of squeezing and releasing your PC muscles is the key to more intense orgasms, better sex, and a healthier vagina. Doing daily kegels can even help you bounce back from pregnancy or control those little squirts of pee that sneak out when you laugh or sneeze, better known as incontinence.

Kegel repetitions work to tighten the muscles of the pelvic floor and vaginal walls. Though science has long busted the myth that lots of amazing sex or multiple partners will forever leave you loose, the pelvic muscles can lose their tone and strength over time, just like the rest of your body when you cheat on your fitness routine for too long. If you’ve given birth, you’ll also notice a change in the tightness of your vaginal muscles.

All this stuff is totally normal, but your health and pleasure depend on physical fitness to keep your insides in tip-top shape. When those downstairs muscles are properly primed, you’ll enjoy stronger orgasms and more internal pleasure during penetration.

Adding some Kegels to your repertoire is like eating a whole box of chocolate-covered cherries after your regular workout (except orgasms are way better for your body than processed sugars).

Let’s get you started with an easy-peasy Kegel routine, some goodies to spice up your workout, and a little orgasmic game to throw in for motivation.

How the Heck Does a Kegel Work?

You can do a Kegel from wherever you’re sitting or laying down, and that’s what makes them pretty much awesome. Simply clench your vaginal muscles together, kind of like when you’re holding in a fart (yes, really, that’s it!). You’ll feel your butt cheeks and thighs clench up at the same time. To check that you’re doing it right, use those same muscles to stop the flow of urine the next time you’re on the toilet. If the stream stops, you’re doing it right.

Now clench and hold, and see how long you can keep those muscles flexed. Ideally, aim for 5-10 seconds clenched, and then release. Congrats! You’ve done your first Kegel.

Ready, Get Set, Vagina Reps!

Keeping up with your Kegels is no different from any other fitness routine. You’ve got to stick with it on the daily, but thankfully you don’t have to hit the gym. You can do the ol’ squeeze-and-release while sitting at the office, watching a movie, or anywhere that allows you some down time to yourself.

For beginners, start by clenching for 5 seconds, relaxing for 5 seconds, and then repeating this pattern 10 times in sets of 3. Work your way up to clenching for 10 seconds and then relaxing for 10, also aiming for 3 sets of 10 reps.

Twist It Up With Some “Exercise Equipment”

You’ll eventually want to add some resistance to move up to the next level, or maybe you could use a little coaching to get it right. There are all sorts of sexy workout toys to guide your routine or add some light weights to build that kitty into a fierce, dildo-crushing jaguar. (Ok, we’re kidding, you probably won’t crush your sex toy, but your partner will definitely feel the difference.)

Bloom by We-Wibe

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We-Vibe’s luxurious Bloom is for the Kegel-ciser who wants it all. Bloom’s smart phone app guides you through your workout like a mini personal trainer. You can even swap out the weights to match your endurance level. Those 10 rumbly vibrations keep you motivated and on track for success.

 

Pussy Playballs Kegel Training Set by Rianne S

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Take your Kegel toys on the go with this ultra girly kit from fashion-forward brand Rianne S. The Pussy Playballs are basic Kegel weights disguised as adorable accessories in their coral-pink cosmetic bag. Each of the 4 balls adds on a little more weight, making it easy to step up your workout anytime.

 

Body & Soul Entice Kegel Balls

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These easy-to-remove Kegel balls keep it super basic, and they’re perfect for beginners on a budget. The stretchy silicone string and smooth, polished plastic balls help you figure out just how to wrap your v-muscles around their first workout toy.

 

Fantasy for Her Remote Kegel Exercise-Her

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If the duo-ball shape doesn’t do it for you, these Fantasy for Her Kegel balls are designed like a tear drop and made just as much for orgasms as exercise. Ten vibration modes take you through a whirlwind workout routine, which we’re pretty sure is going to wind up going south into climax land pretty quickly. You can even use this versatile piece of strength training equipment as an external bullet vibe.

 

Kegel Your Way to an Orgasmic Workout

Once you’ve gotten the kick of Kegel-ing, now comes the fun and games. You can combine your self-pleasure sessions with your daily down-there workout to add in a little reward – orgasms!

Choose a Kegel toy that vibrates as you squeeze, and as you go about your reps, notice how the vibrations ripple through your sacred space. Feel those heavenly vibes stimulate your g-spot and rumble up through your clitoris as you clench. Move your mindset from weightlifting champ to masturbation mode, and enjoy the subtle sensations of the toy as it rocks inside you.

Once you’ve gotten through your usual round of reps, you’ll be all worked up and ready to reach the finish line. Keep going with a few more reps of clench-and-release (or start your Kegel-ciser’s program from the beginning), but this time, slowly massage your clitoris as the Kegel toy’s vibrations bring you to the brink. Hold off for as long as you can, savoring the uniquely subtle pleasure of this deliciously gentle yet deep self-love technique.

When you’re ready, let yourself climax as the Kegel toy gushes forth another 10 second rep of vibration. In this tuned-in state, you’ll feel every last wave as your orgasm matches the toy’s burst of vibes.

Now who said working out has to suck?


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Sensuelle Point PLUS Silicone 20 Function Bullet with Silicone Tips

New Sensuelle Bullet

When it comes to bullet vibes, I always say you can never have enough. I mean yea, you could probably do with just having one in your collection. But why would you want to? Today, I’m going to talk about a bullet you didn’t even know you needed until now. The Sensuelle Point PLUS Silicone 20 Function Bullet.

Features

  • Made Of ABS Plastic and Silicone
  • Power Boosted Motor- Amazingly powerful
  • Includes 2 Stimulator Tips for added fun
  • Waterproof
  • Rechargeable
  • 2-Button Function
  • 20 Vibration Funcions
  • ROHS Approved CE Approved
  • One year warranty provided by Novel Creations
  • Phthalates Free

Tiffy’s Review

The Sensuelle Point PLUS Silicone 20 Function Bullet is pretty new to the market. But not new to the game. It’s very similar to its predecessor, the Sensuelle Point 20 Function Silicone Rechargeable Bullet, of which I have two of because I love it so much. It’s powerful, rumbly with a little bit of buzz, and my clit is always happy with the orgasms they give. I often wondered why all the other clit vibes couldn’t get like it and be just as powerful and if something more powerful then it existed. Then the Sensuelle Point PLUS Silicone 20 Function Bullet came along and knocked me off my feet. It also features a new 2-button operation which makes finding your favorite vibration setting a whole lot easier.

It has a cylinder body and pointed tapered tip for pin-point stimulation when needed. They body is made of ABS plastic and silicone giving it a matte look while feeling velvety soft on the skin. Always use water-based lubricant. What adds a level of pleasurable complexity to this bullet vibe is that comes with 2 stimulator tips which provide texture and added stimulation. It feels great when being used on the clit or an erogenous zones. And because there made of silicone, they can be easily sanitized anyway of your choosing.

When I heard that the Sensuelle Point PLUS Silicone 20 Function Bullet was 30% stronger than the original, I didn’t believe it. It is the same size as the original, so I wanted to know how they could fit a larger motor into this bullet. But they did. I would describe the vibrations as upbeat, fast and, powerful. I get there every time without fail using this vibe. When it comes to size, it doesn’t take on the aesthetic of a traditional looking bullet vibe. It’s on the larger side and will most likely not accommodate many dildos that allow for a bullet in the base or cavity. If you’re willing to risk it all in the name of pleasure, simply ass some water-based lube to the bullet before inserting it so removing it will be a breeze.

Final Thoughts

The Sensuelle Point PLUS Silicone 20 Function Bullet with Silicone Tips is a super powerful that I think every person with a clit should own. The added stimulator tips paired with those powerful vibrations provide a unique experience like no other. A definite nightstand necessity.

You can purchase the Sensuelle Point PLUS Silicone 20 Function Bullet with Silicone Tips here.

Sensuelle Point PLUS Silicone 20 Function Bullet with Silicone Tips is also available in a shiny Rose Gold color. You can pick one up by clicking here.

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Think Pink: Your Vibrator Purchase Benefits Living Beyond Breast Cancer

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Inspire is a collection of thoughtfully designed products aimed at improving the lives of women on their journey for heightened sexual experiences.

A portion of proceeds from Inspire products always benefits Living Beyond Breast Cancer (LBBC), a non-profit that provides programs and services to those affected by breast cancer. In honor of breast cancer awareness month, the manufacturer of the line, CalExotics, is doubling their regular donation! Double the proceeds from each sale of Inspire will go to LBBC to continue the fight and help women take control of their sexual health.

Here are some of the Inspire items we here at IndigoHoney.com love the most. Like all of our powered items, they are all rechargeable, waterproof, and backed by a manufacturer’s warranty:


 

Inspire Flickering Intimate Arouser
Inspire Flickering Intimate Arouser

This oscillating arouser was designed to enhance intimate sensitivity, and offers 10 functions of vibration, pulsation and escalation. The ergonomically curved handle ends in a silky silicone cup that houses a soft flickering tongue-like tip for incredible sensations and full-contact arousal.

Inspire Vibrating G-Wand Bendable Massager
Inspire Vibrating G-Wand Bendable Massager

The Vibrating G-Wand offers a bulbous tip to strengthen the pelvic floor, and 10 functions of vibration, pulsation and escalation to help increase circulation and blood flow. The shaft flexes and bends for multi-directional positioning, making sure that you’ll always hit the right spot.

Inspire Vibrating Ultimate Wand
Inspire Vibrating Ultimate Wand

The Ultimate Wand is a vibrating massager you can use to increase circulation and decrease muscle pain anywhere on the body, as well as an intimately sensual personal stimulator. Dressed in premium silicone, it offers 10 functions of vibration, pulsation and escalation.

Inspire Silicone Dilator Kit
Inspire Silicone Dilator Kit

Dilator therapy is an at-home treatment known to restore and revive vaginal strength and comfort by gradually allowing the user to comfortably reduce pelvic floor muscle tension by training those muscles to relax. The Inspire Dilator Kit contains a range of different sized dilators to allow for appropriate size and progression of treatment over time at your own pace.


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5 Steps to a Healthy and Orgasmic Pelvic Floor from Kinkly

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Takeaway: Taking care of your pelvic floor could lead to the best orgasms of your life.

 

The pelvic floor.

You’ve probably heard this term and it certainly doesn’t sound sexy. However, this area of your body is key to sexual health, sexual performance and your enjoyment of sex.

Now I’ve got your attention, right? Here we’ll take a look at the pelvic floor, how it works and what you can do to keep yours as healthy – and orgasmic – as possible.

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Cosmo’s Sex Toy Picks for Fall

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Want to know what’s hot and happening in the “personal massager” realm? Cosmo knows what’s up!


This Cute Lil’ Clamshell Ring

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This bright little vibrator is meant to be fit perfectly between your fingers to save toy cramps from hitting you in the moment. The rechargeable silicone vibe also features and 10 patterns, so you can bring it with you when you travel without getting bored.

Massager, MINI MARVELS, $60

 

This Ergonomic Clit Pump

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This recharageable toy is meant to fit perfectly in your hand and is cute AF too. The tip is meant to create suction over your clitoris while the simulteneous vibration and suction takes you over the edge. It can hold up to an hour of charge, and comes with a special waterproof top sleeve that makes cleaning a breeze.

Rechargeable Clit Pump, $63

 

This Tongue-Shaped Vibrator

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Props to Cal Exotics for making a tongue-shaped vibrator as minimally creepy as it could be. This bright silicone toy is meant to simulate a licking tongue for those who love oral sex. It’s also fully waterproof and surprisingly quiet for how powerful it is.

Marvelous Flicker, $60

 

This article was originally posted on Cosmopolitan


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Hooking Up? 4 Things You Should Bring With You for a Successful Hook Up

By Tiffy Kink (guest Sex Blogger/ Sex Toy Reviewer) of Aquakink.com

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Hookups are meant be an exciting new adventure that can be fun and pleasure-filled for both parties involved. However, if you fail to plan, you plan to fail –  Meaning, you may not get to enjoy your hookup the way you want to if you don’t bring the right stuff.

So here is a list of 4 things you should bring with you that can help lead to a successful hook-up.

1 – Consent and a Positive Attitude

Of course it’s a given that you’re going to hookup with someone that consent is already assumed right?

But consent is not just about meeting up and getting’ it on. It’s also about all the stuff in between. The different styles of sex you or your partner may want to have or new things they or you may want to try that may be unfamiliar.

Consent is also about having a clear line of communication and not being afraid to let your partner know what you want, when you want it, how you want it, and when you have had enough. Consent is the most important aspect to a successful hookup.

2 – Condoms

Another given, especially if you’re hooking up with someone and you don’t know their status or you do know their status.

Condoms are great for protection against pregnancy, STD’s, and STI’s. Picking out condoms can be a little tricky if you don’t know the size of your partner, he is well-endowed, or you just don’t know what he likes.

When in doubt, ask your partner what condoms he likes or simply ask him to buy some. No shame in asking.

Here are my condom recommendation(s).

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3 – Lube

Lube makes everything sexier.

It makes sex more slippery (in a good way of course!), more comfortable, and even more delicious. Adding lube to sex just makes things better. Adding too much lube on the other hand, can make things sticky and too slippery to enjoy the all fun. So always remember the golden rule: Always start with a little, then add more if needed.

Here are my lube recommendations.

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4 – A Vibrator

Sex toys are great for spicing things up in the bedroom or wherever you plan to get it on.

Vibrators are great for adding some extra stimulation to you and your partner’s favorite pleasure zones or even experiencing new sensations and finding new sweet spots together.

Here are my personal recommendations:

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Always remember that having a positive attitude usually leads to getting a positive outcome. Keeping the door open for communication and open-mindedness is key. Know your limits and don’t be afraid to express them to your partner. Always practice safe sex.

*If you liked what you read, you can read more of Tiffy Kink’s work at Aquakink.com


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According To Science, Women Enjoy Sex More Than Men Do

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You read that right.

This may come as a surprise to both sexes, but compared to guys, women tend to win the orgasm lottery. At least that’s the finding of a study conducted by Concordia research and published last month in the lyrically named Socioaffective Neuroscience & Psychology journal.

Concordia’s findings were that variety is the spice of a woman’s bedroom life. Unlike men, who are limited to the same old, same old when it comes to the big O, women have remarkable opportunities to get all shivery and shaky from a number of sources.

The study’s authors looked at vaginal and clitoral orgasms. Whether one or the other is real has been debated by sex researchers for years. According to the release that broke down the study results, researchers arrived “at a new understanding of the female orgasm that incorporates the external clitoral glans, the internal region around the G-spot, the cervix and sensory stimulation of non-genital areas such as the nipples.”

Senior study author Jim Pfaus was quoted as saying that through “experience, stimulation of one or all of these triggering zones are integrated into a ‘whole’ set of sensory inputs, movements, body positions, arousals and cues related to context.”

According to Pfaus, the combined inputs “is what reliably induces pleasure and orgasm during masturbation and intercourse” for women.

Even more interesting, Pfaus and his co-authors concluded that the elements that mix to make that magic moment can change over time “as women experience different kinds of orgasms from different types of sensations in different contexts and with different partners.”

Pfaus emphasized that their findings underscored that the assumption a woman’s orgasm is some variation on the male version is dead wrong. “Unlike men,” said Pfaus, “women can have a remarkable variety of orgasmic experiences, which evolve” over time. The landmarks on a map of sweet spots all across a woman’s body “is not etched in stone,” Pfaus said, “but rather is an ongoing process” and determined through experimentation and discovery.

 

Women Enjoy Sex More Than Men Do was originally published on Maxim.


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