Sweat Your Way to Better Sex! – Your Guide to the Orgasmic Power of Kegels

KegelIn the words of Queen Britney, You better work, b*tch! When you’re getting your sweat on, don’t forget the most important muscles of all – the ones in your vajayjay (and we’re pretty sure Ms. Spears would agree).

Kegel exercises are as trendy as rose gold jewelry and hot yoga classes, and for good reason. This simple pelvic floor workout of squeezing and releasing your PC muscles is the key to more intense orgasms, better sex, and a healthier vagina. Doing daily kegels can even help you bounce back from pregnancy or control those little squirts of pee that sneak out when you laugh or sneeze, better known as incontinence.

Kegel repetitions work to tighten the muscles of the pelvic floor and vaginal walls. Though science has long busted the myth that lots of amazing sex or multiple partners will forever leave you loose, the pelvic muscles can lose their tone and strength over time, just like the rest of your body when you cheat on your fitness routine for too long. If you’ve given birth, you’ll also notice a change in the tightness of your vaginal muscles.

All this stuff is totally normal, but your health and pleasure depend on physical fitness to keep your insides in tip-top shape. When those downstairs muscles are properly primed, you’ll enjoy stronger orgasms and more internal pleasure during penetration.

Adding some Kegels to your repertoire is like eating a whole box of chocolate-covered cherries after your regular workout (except orgasms are way better for your body than processed sugars).

Let’s get you started with an easy-peasy Kegel routine, some goodies to spice up your workout, and a little orgasmic game to throw in for motivation.

How the Heck Does a Kegel Work?

You can do a Kegel from wherever you’re sitting or laying down, and that’s what makes them pretty much awesome. Simply clench your vaginal muscles together, kind of like when you’re holding in a fart (yes, really, that’s it!). You’ll feel your butt cheeks and thighs clench up at the same time. To check that you’re doing it right, use those same muscles to stop the flow of urine the next time you’re on the toilet. If the stream stops, you’re doing it right.

Now clench and hold, and see how long you can keep those muscles flexed. Ideally, aim for 5-10 seconds clenched, and then release. Congrats! You’ve done your first Kegel.

Ready, Get Set, Vagina Reps!

Keeping up with your Kegels is no different from any other fitness routine. You’ve got to stick with it on the daily, but thankfully you don’t have to hit the gym. You can do the ol’ squeeze-and-release while sitting at the office, watching a movie, or anywhere that allows you some down time to yourself.

For beginners, start by clenching for 5 seconds, relaxing for 5 seconds, and then repeating this pattern 10 times in sets of 3. Work your way up to clenching for 10 seconds and then relaxing for 10, also aiming for 3 sets of 10 reps.

Twist It Up With Some “Exercise Equipment”

You’ll eventually want to add some resistance to move up to the next level, or maybe you could use a little coaching to get it right. There are all sorts of sexy workout toys to guide your routine or add some light weights to build that kitty into a fierce, dildo-crushing jaguar. (Ok, we’re kidding, you probably won’t crush your sex toy, but your partner will definitely feel the difference.)

Bloom by We-Wibe

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We-Vibe’s luxurious Bloom is for the Kegel-ciser who wants it all. Bloom’s smart phone app guides you through your workout like a mini personal trainer. You can even swap out the weights to match your endurance level. Those 10 rumbly vibrations keep you motivated and on track for success.

 

Pussy Playballs Kegel Training Set by Rianne S

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Take your Kegel toys on the go with this ultra girly kit from fashion-forward brand Rianne S. The Pussy Playballs are basic Kegel weights disguised as adorable accessories in their coral-pink cosmetic bag. Each of the 4 balls adds on a little more weight, making it easy to step up your workout anytime.

 

Body & Soul Entice Kegel Balls

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These easy-to-remove Kegel balls keep it super basic, and they’re perfect for beginners on a budget. The stretchy silicone string and smooth, polished plastic balls help you figure out just how to wrap your v-muscles around their first workout toy.

 

Fantasy for Her Remote Kegel Exercise-Her

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If the duo-ball shape doesn’t do it for you, these Fantasy for Her Kegel balls are designed like a tear drop and made just as much for orgasms as exercise. Ten vibration modes take you through a whirlwind workout routine, which we’re pretty sure is going to wind up going south into climax land pretty quickly. You can even use this versatile piece of strength training equipment as an external bullet vibe.

 

Kegel Your Way to an Orgasmic Workout

Once you’ve gotten the kick of Kegel-ing, now comes the fun and games. You can combine your self-pleasure sessions with your daily down-there workout to add in a little reward – orgasms!

Choose a Kegel toy that vibrates as you squeeze, and as you go about your reps, notice how the vibrations ripple through your sacred space. Feel those heavenly vibes stimulate your g-spot and rumble up through your clitoris as you clench. Move your mindset from weightlifting champ to masturbation mode, and enjoy the subtle sensations of the toy as it rocks inside you.

Once you’ve gotten through your usual round of reps, you’ll be all worked up and ready to reach the finish line. Keep going with a few more reps of clench-and-release (or start your Kegel-ciser’s program from the beginning), but this time, slowly massage your clitoris as the Kegel toy’s vibrations bring you to the brink. Hold off for as long as you can, savoring the uniquely subtle pleasure of this deliciously gentle yet deep self-love technique.

When you’re ready, let yourself climax as the Kegel toy gushes forth another 10 second rep of vibration. In this tuned-in state, you’ll feel every last wave as your orgasm matches the toy’s burst of vibes.

Now who said working out has to suck?


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The Best Bullet Vibes For Your Bucks

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There’s just something so adorably enticing about bullet vibes. They’re adorably tiny slices of orgasmic heaven that are fun to collect and take up zero space in your sex toy drawer. Maybe it’s because we grew up wanting the entire collection of all those microscopic Polly Pocket and Littlest Pet Shop toys as kids, but let’s face it: our obsession with tiny toys has clearly made the leap into adulthood.

From those cheap-o, impulse buy bullets at the sex toy counter to today’s ultra-modern, petite luxury vibrators, this sex toy niche has grown from a last-minute grab at the boutique cash register to a broad and sought-after category. We’ve even seen a few companies pop up that are completely dedicated to bullets (and P.S. that’s Screaming O and Nu Sensuelle, because we know you’re going to ask)!

Before you get lost under a pile of finger-sized vibrators, check out our list of these top-notch toys that’ll bring variety (and awesome orgasms, obviously) to your itty-bitty pleasure collection.


Blush Exposed Nocturnal Rechargeable Lipstick Vibe

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Remember those wonderfully cheesy lipstick-shaped vibes from the early 2000s? They might have fooled your high school boyfriend, but even your mom knew that wasn’t just a tube of lippy in your purse.

Blush Novelties dug into their sex toy time capsule and crafted a glamorous update that’s part old-school and part modern tech maven. The Exposed Nocturnal Rechargeable Lipstick Vibe dropped the make-up masquerade act, but kept the sleek lipstick shape. This super affordable bullet is class and sass in a tiny package with 10 strong vibe patterns that promise the strongest orgasms possible from a toy this size. Toss this lil’ cutie in your purse and have a solo quickie in the ladies’ room on your next night out.

 

VēDO LUV Plus

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We’ve got just the thing for the babe on a budget! The LUV Plus bullet by VEDO is under $50, and it does not skimp on frills. Where else can you get 10 vibration speeds, full waterproof capabilities, and velvety-soft silicone for next to nada?

But what really makes the LUV Plus extra special is it’s unique tip. Instead of the usual ol’ smooth-as-a-baby’s-butt rounded top, the LUV bullet hugs your clitoris with a raised oval that feels suspiciously like it was molded just for your anatomy. If you need an extra push to cross into climax territory, flip the LUV Plus over and press it’s tiny nub right where you need it.

 

Maia Toys SERA Lay-On Bullet

 

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Tired of letting your favorite bullets slip and slide through your lubed-up fingers? Maia Toys has a solution: the SERA Lay-On Bullet, a re-vamped version of our favorite clit stim toy that’s crafted to fit perfectly over your pubic bone without your assistance.

While the jury’s still out on whether you can actually just lay back, balance this pink bunny rabbit on your vulva, and let those rumbling ears go to town on your clitoris, it still makes for some awesome orgasms. For starters, there’s a lot more to grab on to. The SERA’s teardrop shape is easier to grasp with slippery digits.

SERA also comes equipped with 10 funky vibration modes and a unique triplet of stimulating, silicone fingers. The paired ears at the top gently flutter over your labia while the third – a soft bump protruding just beneath – directly rumbles your love button.

 

Charged by Screaming O Vooom RC Remote Control Bullet

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If your male partner isn’t as stoked on sex toys, hand him the Screaming O Charged Vooom RC Remote Control Bullet. With a name like Vooom RC, this bullet vibe sounds more like a mechanical upgrade for a race car, and it’s mini, ring-style remote will bring back his old memories of playing with a remote control toy racetrack.

This baby bullet has it all: a waterproof exterior, multiple colors to choose from, easy USB recharging, and a 50-foot radius so your partner can start foreplay before you’re even in the same room. Let your partner cycle through the Vooom’s 10 vibrating functions and see if they can make you climax from across the apartment!

 

Leaf+ Life+

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Ok, so we’ll admit we cheated a bit on this one. The Life+ vibrator by Leaf+ isn’t exactly a bullet, at least not in the traditional sense. It’s more like a souped-up version that fits perfectly in your palm and still reaches all those little spots you can only tease with a tinier vibe.

With 5 speeds and functions, the Leaf+ is a crowd pleaser, too. Use the soft, pointy tip for super-direct clitoral stimulation, or gently insert this silicone beauty, which is ergonomically shaped to caress all your internal curves. It also makes an excellent body massager for a do-it-yourself shoulder rub to knock out tight muscle knots. Leave it out on your nightstand and it blends in nicely with the rest of your bedside tech goodies.

 

Jopen Amour Remote Bullet

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Luxury sex toy brand Jopen is all about the finer things. If you love shiny accents, fancy packaging, and shades of baby pink, Jopen’s Amour Remote Bullet is the perfectly dainty addition to your charming sex toy collection.

Easily mistaken for a high-end cosmetic accessory, the Amour Remote Bullet romances your internal and external pleasure zones. Use the cutesy, heart-shaped remote to cycle through Amour’s 7 vibration patterns, all of which can be independently controlled to speed up or slow down with 5 speed options. When your inner bits are begging for attention, insert Amour and let the bullet’s curvy shape rock you into ecstasy. When you’re done, just pop it out using the stretchy silicone string!

 

Fantasy For Her Remote Kegel Excite Her

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We’re all about sex toys that can do double duty, especially when that means squeezing a workout into play time. Pipedream’s Fantasy for Her Remote Kegel Excite-Her takes you from sensual Kegel exercises to bullet-sized clitoral play.

Pop this purple teardrop vibe into your vagina and squeeze your PC muscles along with any of the toy’s 10 vibration patterns to keep that vajayjay strong. When you’re done poppin’ that pussy to the beat, grab the string and use your natural juices to lubricate your clitoris while the Excite-Her’s enticing vibration modes do the rest. Where else can you find workout gear that doubles as a solo or couples’ sex toy?

Aria by Blush Vitality Bullet With Tips & Wireless Remote

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Variety is the spice of life, especially when it comes to your sex toy drawer! The Aria Vitality Bullet brings the best of all worlds with 3 interchangeable silicone tips so you can switch up the sensations.

Use the Aria Vitality alone if you crave intense vibrations, which travel easily through the toy’s smooth plastic shell. Pop on one of the three silicone heads for an experiment in shape and texture. The Aria Vitality cycles through 5 speeds and 5 modes to bring you to the brink.

Try the orange, rounded tip to add a bit of buffer between your clit and those strong vibes, or take the purple, lipstick-shaped tip for a spin if you prefer direct stimulation. The green, dual-tipped vibe is a fun way to finish the night by teasing your clit with this pair of rumbling ticklers.

Nu Sensuelle Point 20 Function Silicone Rechargeable Bullet

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If we’d placed a Nu Sensuelle bullet at the top of this list, you probably wouldn’t have bothered to read the rest of the blog. In fact, we might have just stopped you right there ourselves (well, almost!).

Nu Sensuelle is sex toy royalty when it comes to super-strong bullets. Many a sex toy blogger has bemoaned the plethora of pitifully designed, weak, and downright boring bullets on the market – unless it’s one of the many the magical, clit-pleasing creations from Nu Sensuelle.

If it’s power you seek, the Point 20 Function Silicone Rechargeable Bullet is officially your new go-to sex prop. No, really – we aren’t kidding. The multiple speeds on this smooth silicone vibe are enough to blast you into climax hysterics. This power-packed toy will have you melting with pleasure so intense, you’ll hardly believe it’s possible (at least until the multiple orgasms start rolling in).

Last-Minute Christmas Finds for Everyone on Your List

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If you’ve waited until just now to consider hitting the mall for Christmas shopping, let’s be honest: we kinda pity you (and we mean that with love, really).

If your daily commute hasn’t been enough of a reminder that holiday traffic season has arrived, just wait until you’re almost rear-ended for the 10th time while looking for a parking spot at a department store. Trust us, it’s a really good time to stay inside (or at least off the road) at all costs!

If you’re like us (and basically everyone under the age of 50), you’ve probably procrastinated your Christmas shopping until the literal last minute and then whoops, what the hell are you supposed to get in everything’s-sold-out December that doesn’t suck?

Well, you know what kind of Christmas gifts almost never suck (unless that’s what they’re literally supposed to do)? Sex toys. In all our years of giving and receiving pleasure products, we’ve not once seen a disappointed face after unwrapping a vibrator.

While a sex toy might not be ideal for your grandma, Indigo Honey made sure to stock up on loads of other goodies, like bath salts, jewelry, and perfume kits, so you don’t have to spend hours cruising the net for the whole family.

Check out our top picks for last-minute gifts for everyone on your list, including your slut-shaming great aunts and that one new girl friend that hasn’t talked about her masturbation habits yet (and if she doesn’t, you’re probably going to ghost her eventually anyway).


For That Friend Who Just Won’t Get Off Their Damn Smart Phone – the Gballs² Kegel Fitness Coach

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Did you really think you were going to convince your social media and app addict of a pal to put down their phone? Of course you didn’t! But thankfully for your smart phone-obsessed friend, there’s an app for just about any sex toy experience you can dream up.

The Gballs 2 Kegel Fitness Coach is a vibrating Kegel-ciser toy that connects to an app full of phone-centered exercise activities. While your phone-crazy gal pal is getting her kicks and clicks, she’ll be toning her pelvic floor muscles at the same time, which results in stronger orgasms and more penetrative pleasure during sex.

The Gballs 2 even tracks your success and rewards you with g-spot rumbling vibrations when you complete each course. She’ll be so caught up in chasing the next level of workout rewards that she’ll forget she’s actually doing something healthy for her body instead of just staring blankly at Instagram. Who says exercise has to be boring and tedious?

 

For the Adventurous Type Who’s Always Up for a Challenge – the b-Vibe Petite Rimming Plug

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They’ve back-packed around Thailand, hitch-hiked through Hawaii, and fearlessly couch-surfed across Australia. But has your globe-trotting, nomadic bestie tried anal yet?

The b-Vibe Petite Rimming Plug is the sort of pleasure challenge that adventurous types can’t resist. For those that haven’t indulged in booty play yet, the b-Vibe Petite is – hence the name – small enough to make any first-time anal encounter relaxing and comfortable.

But what sets the b-Vibe Petite apart from other tiny anal plugs are the rows of spinning beads that circulate around the neck of the toy. For the uninitiated, “rimming” is essentially oral sex for your bum hole, and b-Vibe’s star product aims to recreate that sublime feeling of having a partner’s tongue tickling your rear. Add in b-Vibe’s extra vibration options and your thrill-seeking best friend has just found their latest conquest.

 

For the Sex Toy Maven Who Knows She’s the Sh*t – LELO SONA Cruise Sonic Clitoral Stimulator

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We’ve all got that one friend who’s The Little Mermaid of sex toys. She’s got gadgets and gizmos a-plenty, but it’s no big deal to this real-life Ariel because she always wants more. Oh yeah, and she doesn’t need some dude or chick to please her because she’s got a whole drawer full of battery-powered orgasms at her fingertips.

The LELO Sona Cruise took the cake this year in sex toy innovation. You’ve probably heard the buzz about oral sex simulators for clitorises. Every company has a different name for the air pressure-powered technique that creates repetitive suction around the clit – Sonic Wave, Pressure Wave, et cetera – which some babes claim can make them come in less than a minute. Whatever you want to call it, this is the kind of stimulation women have been raving about all year long.

The Sona Cruise is LELO’s take on this hot trend, adding a function called Cruise Control that ensures the toy doesn’t lose any suction power as you press it into your skin. Cycle through Sona Cruise’s 8 different wave settings to fit your power preferences.

 

For Your Queen Goddess Who Deserves Nothing But The Best– the ZALO Queen PulseWave G-Spot Vibrator & Suction Sleeve

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If you’ve got a queen in your life, you know she’ll settle for nothing less than a little slice of royalty under the tree. She’s fierce, independent, and incredible, and what better way to serve your majesty than with a luxury sex toy that does it all?

The ZALO Queen is a vibrator, g-spot toy, and oral sex simulator all in one. Adorned in gold accents with an Egyptian flair, the Queen vibrates with 8 levels of escalating speed and pulsation. The Queen’s flat-tipped, curved wand is perfect for broad clitoral stimulation and working those g-spot angles. It’s also just damn gorgeous to leave out on your nightstand.

What sets the Queen apart from the rest – just like your own royal babe – is her ability to knock out orgasms like they’re life goals. Slip the ZALO Queen‘s included silicone sleeve over the end of the wand, and presto! This vibrator turns into a PulseWave oral sex simulator that sensually sucks on her clit using waves of air pressure.

 

For That Acquaintance Friend Who Hasn’t Talked About Her Vibrator Collection (Yet!) – the Shunga Oriental Crystals Organic Dead Sea Bath Salt & Floating Candle

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We’ve all got that one sorta- friend who just hadn’t quite crossed the acquaintance line yet. She seems super chill, and you get along great, but you’re doing that annoyingly slow, drawn out process of making adult friends and waiting to see if she’s laid-back enough to join your crew. It’s probably not a good time to spring for a vibrator as a gift (unless you’re that kind of new friend, which we totally support and love).

The Shunga Oriental Bath Crystals, which include a floating tea light candle and seashell scooper, are just the right blend of sensual, decadent, and thoughtful. If she’s into spiritual me-time, like yoga, meditation, or hot stone massages, this organic, Dead Sea salt crystal kit will show her that you get her mindful side. If she’s the princess of self-pampering, she’ll feel totally spoiled by the idea of a skin-soothing scented bath surrounded by candlelight. And if she’s nowhere near any of the above, who in their right mind wouldn’t appreciate a good ol’ fashioned hot bath?

 

For Your Great Aunt Martha Who Thinks Vibrators Are For Sluts – the Vintage Snowflake Necklace

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Did you really think you were going to find a gift for everyone on your list at Indigo Honey? Oh no, you didn’t – but oh yes, we did!

Gifting a vibrator isn’t for everyone. Although your grandmothers and great aunts will unfortunately never know what they’re missing, it’s probably not wise or considerate to throw a sexy toy in their face (even if you swear they’ll thank you later). Besides, do you really want to start another dinner table conversation about “those darn liberal youngsters?”

This golden, vintage-style necklace is one of those timeless gifts that works for anyone who loves jewelry and a little bit of sparkle. Let’s face it, it’s hard to find winter or Christmas-themed jewelry that doesn’t look like a reject from the costume department of your 3rd grade holiday talent show. We love that this petite snowflake charm makes a subtle, classy statement.


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Product Spotlight: VeDo BAM Bullet

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The VeDo BAM Bullet is the best of both worlds: An extremely powerful bullet that can be used during sex and can provide internal stimulation all in a small package. Let’s see if the VeDo BAM Bullet has what it takes to be your new favorite vibe.

Features

  • Made of silicone and ABS plastic
  • Extremely powerful motor
  • Rechargeable
  • USB cable included
  • 10 Vibration modes
  • One button easy control
  • Extremely quiet
  • Velvety smooth silicone
  • Designed for an easy insertion
  • Submersible
  • Running time up to 2 hours
  • 1 Year warranty provided by VeDO/ Savvy Co.

Measurements

  • 8 inches length
  • .94 inches in width

Tiffy’s Review

For starters, the VeDo BAM is larger than your average bullet vibe. Its size is not ideal for toys that allow for a bullet vibe in the base. It’s small enough to be used discreetly and between two partners during sex, yet large enough for some internal stimulation if the moment ever so moves you. With that being said, please keep in mind that the VeDo BAM is not suited for anal use as it does not feature a flared base.

The vibrations on the VeDo BAM Bullet can be described as rumbly with some buzz. So 90% rumble and 10% buzz. I like this combination because the slight buzzieness helps the vibrations to reach deeper, which can cause a stronger climax. The vibrations are fast and consistent with no break in between then. Excellent for those with a clit of steel.

It features a matte silicone that covers its rigid body that is smooth, silky, and feels great on the skin. I have come to develop a special appreciation for sex toy that have a matte silicone finish to them as it provides a little bit of traction when playing on slippery surfaces such as a body part that is wet with lube or vaginal lubrication. Because the VeDo BAM Bullet is larger than your traditional bullet vibe, it houses a larger motor, which in turn also houses a larger battery for longer play sessions.

Pro Tip: Want to make your new favorite bullet vibe travel-friendly? Simply un-screw and remove the VeDo Bam Bullets cap, keeping it close by and boom! It’s ready for travel without the worry of accidental turn-on.

Final Thoughts

Overall The VeDo BAM Bullet is great for those looking for a bullet under $40 that can be used with a partner or for solo play, offering the option for internal stimulation. With my pro tip on how to make this vibe travel-friendly, the VeDo BAM Bullet is always ready when you are.

You can purchase the VeDo BAM Bullet here.


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Anal August Sex Toy Spotlight: The Avant Pride P6 Beyond Silicone Butt Plug

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Did you know that August is anal pleasure month? Yes! This month is dedicated to all things booty and backdoor fun.

The Avant Pride P6 Beyond Silicone Butt Plug by Blush Novelties a unique hand-crafted toy that’s is great for both those who are new to the wonderful world of anal play and are intermediately experienced. Let’s talk about why.

Features

  • Lovingly Crafted Small Batch Artisanal Plug
  • Tapered Design for Easy Insertion
  • Base Anchors Plug Safely Outside the Body
  • 5 year manufacturer’s warranty

Measurements

  • 4.25 Inch Length
  • 3.75 Inch Insertable
  • 1.25 Inch Width

Tiffy’s Review

When I picked up the Avant Pride P6 Beyond Silicone Butt Plug, I immediately noticed how soft and squishy the silicone was. It’s also have some stretch and give it to it. If I were to compare it to something size-wise, I would say it’s a little bigger than a pinky. It has a rounded tapered tip which widens towards the bottom of the plug and tapers back down to a short neck and into a flared base to prevent further travel. What also aids in this comfortable experience is the smooth texture of this plug which makes gradual insertion pleasant for those who are not looking for a textured plug and those who want a plug that can be worn for an extended period of time.

I also enjoyed the color-blocking designs that Blush Novelties chose to roll out with the Avant pride series of butt plugs as there not just a single color and don’t target a particular gender, making these truly gender-neutral, though all butt plugs are in fact gender neutral.

I enjoy the stretching sensation and fullness it gives because that squishiness of the silicone works with you than against you during play. My only wish was that the neck was a little bit longer which would have made thrusting a little bit more fun. But if you’re not planning on thrusting with your butt plugs, then that shouldn’t be a problem.

My favorite things to do with this plug was some light thrusting and wearing it around the house while doing chores. This also works very well as a primer for larger plugs.

Final Thoughts

If your someone who is new to anal play or looking for a step up, the Avant Pride P6 Beyond Silicone Butt Plug from Blush Novelties. Its smooth texture, soft silicone, and gradual shape makes it a great starter plug. At a price point of $32 the Avant Pride P6 Silicone Dildo is affordably priced and definitely worth giving a try.


You can purchase the Avant Pride P6 Beyond Silicone Butt Plug from Blush Novelties here.

*Please note that the Avant Pride P6 Beyond Silicone Butt Plug from Blush Novelties is to be used with only water-based lubricant.


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Hooking Up? 4 Things You Should Bring With You for a Successful Hook Up

By Tiffy Kink (guest Sex Blogger/ Sex Toy Reviewer) of Aquakink.com

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Hookups are meant be an exciting new adventure that can be fun and pleasure-filled for both parties involved. However, if you fail to plan, you plan to fail –  Meaning, you may not get to enjoy your hookup the way you want to if you don’t bring the right stuff.

So here is a list of 4 things you should bring with you that can help lead to a successful hook-up.

1 – Consent and a Positive Attitude

Of course it’s a given that you’re going to hookup with someone that consent is already assumed right?

But consent is not just about meeting up and getting’ it on. It’s also about all the stuff in between. The different styles of sex you or your partner may want to have or new things they or you may want to try that may be unfamiliar.

Consent is also about having a clear line of communication and not being afraid to let your partner know what you want, when you want it, how you want it, and when you have had enough. Consent is the most important aspect to a successful hookup.

2 – Condoms

Another given, especially if you’re hooking up with someone and you don’t know their status or you do know their status.

Condoms are great for protection against pregnancy, STD’s, and STI’s. Picking out condoms can be a little tricky if you don’t know the size of your partner, he is well-endowed, or you just don’t know what he likes.

When in doubt, ask your partner what condoms he likes or simply ask him to buy some. No shame in asking.

Here are my condom recommendation(s).

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3 – Lube

Lube makes everything sexier.

It makes sex more slippery (in a good way of course!), more comfortable, and even more delicious. Adding lube to sex just makes things better. Adding too much lube on the other hand, can make things sticky and too slippery to enjoy the all fun. So always remember the golden rule: Always start with a little, then add more if needed.

Here are my lube recommendations.

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4 – A Vibrator

Sex toys are great for spicing things up in the bedroom or wherever you plan to get it on.

Vibrators are great for adding some extra stimulation to you and your partner’s favorite pleasure zones or even experiencing new sensations and finding new sweet spots together.

Here are my personal recommendations:

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Always remember that having a positive attitude usually leads to getting a positive outcome. Keeping the door open for communication and open-mindedness is key. Know your limits and don’t be afraid to express them to your partner. Always practice safe sex.

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