How Do You Start… You Know… Touching Yourself – presented by Coffee@Dawn

Photo by Darius Bashar on Unsplash

 

Welcome to a safe space where we can chat about sexual health and wellness, candid talk with direct language and straightforward responses to your questions. 

 

“Touching yourself in this way is a revolutionary act. It’s bold, powerful, valuable! …This is your body– yours to know, yours to please, yours to love.”

L’s question: How do you start… you know… touching yourself?

Such a brave question!

How do you feel about your body? That’s a good question to ask yourself. Some women only touch themselves to wash in the shower and that’s it. Before we can get down with the big O, we might have to first practice some sensual self love.

Try standing in front of the mirror and giving yourself compliments. Start fully clothed if that is easier, or maybe in your favorite underwear (more on lingerie in another post).

“OOoooooh, woman! You are hot!”

“Your hair is gorgeous today.”

Sashay away and back again. Toss your hair. Wink at yourself. Be playful. Be silly. Flirt with that woman in the mirror. She is sexy!

“What are you doing later?”

“Meet me back here after ________, and I’ll treat you like the queen you are.”

Now plan for your date with that fine woman, and don’t stand her up!

Pick up some flowers while you’re out because she deserves them. Take a shower. Shave if that’s your thing. Pour a beverage, have a snack, and meet yourself in bed.

Don’t go directly to the clitoris! Take it easy. Slow down. Take some time running your hands over the surface of all your skin.

Start on your face with your fingertips. Gently touch your cheeks and your lips. Did you know your ears are erogenous zones filled with sensory receptors? Spend some time there… touching. Imagine warm lips… soft breath… teeth nibbling on your earlobes. Mmmmm…

Move your hand to your neck. Hover there. Close enough to feel the heat between your hand and your throat. The tiniest amount of pressure on the arteries under your jawline can feel exhilarating. Press gently. Feel your pulse. Is it quickening? 

Now your arms. Use one hand to caress your opposite arm. Drag your fingers gently across the surface, or harder if you like. Experiment with pressure or nails. What feels good? What do you like? Take time on your wrists and the inside of your elbows. These are sensitive spots. Imagine your fingers are someone else’s tongue. (Anyone! It’s your imagination.)

Once you’ve taken the time on both arms, move your hands to your breasts. Cup them in your palms. They are perfect! Shhhhhhh… Quiet that critical voice; there’s no room for that here. Take the time to explore them. Press them together, massage them, squeeze them. What feels good? How does it feel when you touch your nipples? When you brush your palms over them… when you roll them between your fingers, softly, then pinching them between your thumb and forefinger. Take your time. How do you like it? 

That beverage you brought with you to the bed… is it beaded with condensation? If you run your fingers along the side of the glass, are they wet? Cold? How does it feel to touch your skin now? Is there an ice cube that you could use to draw a line from your chest to your navel? How do the drops feel tracing rivulets down your sides? Don’t worry about the sheets. They will dry. Stick with the sensations of your beautiful body.

You deserve this. You are worth it. Push your fingers between your legs and separate your thighs. Those delicious thighs. Spread them apart. Treat them with the same care and love that you did your arms. Gentle fingertips or nails grazing the surface… squeezing the flesh in your hands. If you like sharper sensations, try a pinch or a slap in this delicate area. You get to decide what you like. No one is here to judge you. This is your date with your body. Shame is not invited. 

Try rolling onto your stomach. Lie flat or arch your back to raise your hips off the bed, and reach around to the back. All that ass is yours. Love it. Right now, it is the most beautiful ass in the world. Tell yourself. 

Are you flexible? Can you caress your legs? Reach down or up or around and give them the love that they deserve. Now is not the time to criticize or critique. Roll around in the sheets. Feel the texture on your skin. Enjoy this moment with yourself. Love your beautiful body.

We haven’t even gotten to the vulva– the place where your clitoris lives. That is a whole blog to itself! But we will. We will do it together next time. But don’t wait for me; by all means, continue the exploration without my help. Take your time; try different pressures and speeds. Investigate, experiment. Maybe report back and let me know how it went.

Touching yourself in this way is a revolutionary act. It’s bold, powerful, valuable! Maybe someone in your life has shamed you for it. They can f*ck off. This is your body– yours to know, yours to please, yours to love.

Knowing your own body and what you like has so many benefits! It is a form of self-care and self-love, yes. It relieves stress, helps you sleep, releases endorphins… It will also make you a better lover to another. 

Honestly, it will make you more powerful outside of the bedroom as well. If you make time for sensuous self-dates like the one above, you will carry the confidence you are inevitably developing into all areas of your life. Start with you.

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DAWN DAVIS

CONFIDENCE COACH

I Help Women Build Unapologetic Confidence 

In Their Bodies, Bedrooms, and Beyond!

DawnDavisCoaching@gmail.com

Instagram: @DawnDavisCoaching 

As an educator and a coach, I make an effort to be inclusive in my respect and support of underrepresented sexuality populations: lesbian, bisexual, trans, poly, non-binary, kinky, swinger, BDSM-affilitated women are all invited to have coffee at my table. There is room for all of us.

The information contained within this blog Coffee@Dawn is not a substitute for legal or professional advice such as from an attorney, medical doctor, psychiatrist, or therapist. Coffee@Dawn holds no responsibility or liability for the actions, choices, or decisions taken by the reader.

Introducing Coffee@Dawn

Welcome to a safe space where we can chat about sexual health and wellness, candid talk with direct language and straightforward responses to your questions.

“Clear communication helps us ask for what we want, inside and outside of the bedroom. It has the potential to make us more confident and capable in all areas of our lives!”

Hello, ladies. Come on in; have a seat. Let’s talk about sexuality and desire. That’s why you’re here, isn’t it? Kick off your shoes, and I’ll pour you a cup of coffee, exactly as you like it. If tea is your preference, I’ve got that, too. Make yourself comfortable. You are all welcome here in this safe space– each and every one of you.

I invite all women to join in on our conversation. Talking and sharing, educating, and supporting one another. All different shapes and sizes are welcome, different personalities and strengths, young women and older women, too. 

Some of you will plop your bodies down, starved for this conversation where no subject is taboo. Others will sit tentatively perched on the chair, eyeing the rest of us with caution, ready to run away at the first blush of embarrassment. Whether you talk freely and easily about the multiple topics of women’s sexuality, or you don’t know where to start, welcome, welcome! Have a seat; I’ll pour you a cup.

You might be a person familiar and comfortable with your body. Perhaps you use accurate and precise terms to identify all the parts. Maybe you are certain of what you like and how you want it. It is easy for you to shop here at Indigo Honey, buying new toys for yourself and your partner(s) to spice up your sex life. You know that radical self care is a necessary component of our busy lives. You are invited to coffee at my table.

Or you might be less certain. You could be new to this whole experience. It’s possible you have never talked about your body in this way. You may feel shy or frightened– foolish, embarrassed, or ashamed. What are these desires that women have anyway? If you are insecure or nervous about being here, unsure how a website like Indigo Honey could benefit you, you are invited to coffee at my table.

The media tells us we are flawed and defective. Our families and people we love might perpetuate those messages. We even tell ourselves we are too much or not enough, depending on the situation or circumstances. We internalize these messages, often unconsciously. Any combination of these negative ideas is enough to diminish our sex drive or even squash it alltogether. 

As a Confidence Coach, I talk to my clients about various areas of self-doubt. Inevitably, how they feel about their bodies is part of the discussion. As women, we are bombarded with conflicting messages about how we should or should not be sexual beings. Some of us have experienced varying degrees of trauma; our sexuality may be informed or restricted by repressive cultural norms; we did not get comprehensive sex education at any point in our lives; it was something we just don’t talk about! I encourage self-love, negotiation, and ongoing, enthusiastic consent. Clear communication helps us ask for what we want, inside and outside of the bedroom. It has the potential to make us more confident and capable in all areas of our lives!

What are some of the topics we will explore? The possibilities are endless! BDSM as an expression of women’s empowerment, why masturbation is important, body confidence and expression for women ashamed of their bodies, queer culture, women in porn, the best sex toys, how to talk dirty, etc.

Indigo Honey is a great place to start. I challenge you to visit the site and be curious about the merchandise. Find something that looks exciting or interesting or confusing. Ask questions if you have them. Use Purchase Code Dawn10 to save 10% on your purchases. Full disclosure: Indigo Honey gives me 10% as well!

Post your questions in the blog comments or contact me directly via email or Instagram contacts below. Let me know what you would like to talk about. Be prepared to dive in with the juicy details when you come join me next time for Coffee@Dawn.

DAWN DAVIS

CONFIDENCE COACH

I Help Women Build Unapologetic Confidence 

In Their Bodies, Bedrooms, and Beyond!

DawnDavisCoaching@gmail.com

Instagram: @DawnDavisCoaching 

As an educator and a coach, I make an effort to be inclusive in my respect and support of underrepresented sexuality populations: lesbian, bisexual, trans, poly, non-binary, kinky, swinger, BDSM-affilitated women are all invited to have coffee at my table. There is room for all of us.

The information contained within this blog Coffee@Dawn is not a substitute for legal or professional advice such as from an attorney, medical doctor, psychiatrist, or therapist. Coffee@Dawn holds no responsibility or liability for the actions, choices, or decisions taken by the reader.

What Sexual Personality Type Are You

What Sexual Personality Type Are You

Takeaway: If more than one seem to fit you, don’t sweat it — there’s room for multiple toys in your drawer, after all.

 

Sex advice can sometimes be generic, but who we are in the bedroom is extremely individual. There are as many sexual personalities as there are people — but according to sex therapist Vanessa Marin, people can actually be grouped into 11 sexual personality types.

It can be useful to know what type you are so that you know the best ways to improve your sex life, including the ideal toys to buy. Here are the 11 types and a product that fits each one.

Read more of our sponsored article on Kinkly


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Top 10 Picks from the Indigo Honey Holiday Gift Guide!

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Don’t you love gift guides? I sure do! They always help me find something fun and unexpected to give a friend or loved one.

Indigo Honey always has seasonal boutique to reflect the current time of year, and I  have a great time picking out items I think our customers will love. The picks are divided into 2 sections: Sweet (lotions, lubes, potions, etc.) and Spicy (sex toys.) For my  Holiday Top Ten, I went with 5 from each section.

All the items in our gift guide were selected for their style and giftability. I usually care more about what’s inside the box, but because the idea is to GIVE something as a present, I took the packaging into careful consideration this time around. I mean, in my mind, part of the fun of receiving a gift is the unwrapping, amiright?

As usual, all our powered items are rechargeable, waterproof, and backed by a manufacturer’s warranty.

You can learn more about anything on this list by clicking on product name to get all the details from IndigoHoney.com.

Scroll down and enjoy my Top 10 Picks from the Indigo Honey Holiday Gift Guide!


Screaming O Holiday Stocking with Bestie Bullet

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Deliver the gift that keeps on giving with the Screaming O Holiday Stocking. 

Featuring the NEW Bestie Bullet, this stocking includes sexual enhancement accessories that help couples connect and get cozy. Whether a romantic gift for that special someone or a sexy treat to spice up your sex life, the Screaming O Holiday Stocking makes it fun and easy to show your not-so-secret Santa how naughty and nice you’ve been this year!

 

Elite Femme by Wet Aromatherapy Massage & Body Oil

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Unleash your sensual power through the ancient healing art of Aromatherapy.

Elite Femme’s blend of seven vitamin enriched natural oils glide on easily and leave your skin irresistibly soft and delicately scented for hours. Whether massaged into the skin, sprinkled in your bath water, or used to pamper every inch of your body… Elite Femme by Wet Aromatherapy Massage & Body Oil will balance your mind, body, and spirit.

 

Hide & Play Rechargeable Lipstick

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Slim, stylish and ready for your next adventure.

The discreet Hide & Play Rechargeable Lipstick is the playful travel-loving mini vibe that you have been dreaming of.

Enjoy total pleasure to-go by slipping the mini massager into your purse and spice up the night whenever the urge takes you.

This bold lipstick vibe has 10 functions of vibration, pulsation, and escalation controlled with a single frustration-free button. The intense vibrations – provided by an extremely powerful, whisper-quiet tungsten motor – are sent throughout the compact stimulator for mind-blowing external stimulation.

The unique lipstick-shaped tip is designed to deliver powerful pinpoint stimulation or a full-contact action.

The discreet lipstick disguise makes it the mini massager the ideal travel companion, letting you enjoy radiating pleasure wherever your fantasies take you.

The USB rechargeable Hide & Play Rechargeable Lipstick Vibrator is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.

 

Bijoux Indiscrets Magnifique Metallic Chain Whip Necklace

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This dual use, elegant necklace is an exclusive design by Bijoux Indiscrets, and inspired by the sensuous dancers in New York cabarets, where seduction is present in every detail.

It’s perfect for any occasion and makes a great teasing whip when it comes time to play with your lover.

The cold touch of the nickel-free metal chains contrasts with your skin temperature, and are great for caressing or punishing.

Wear your necklace on your evening outfit, with lingerie, or simply with your skin.

 

In Touch Passion Trio Versatile 3-in-1 Massager

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Get In Touch with your adventurous side with the premium Passion Trio multi-head interchangeable massager – It’s really 3 premium toys presented in an elegant gift box!

This exceptional set is designed to triple your pleasure with a simple snap and twist.

The versatile Passion Trio set gives you a variety of pleasure with one premium base and three unique interchangeable attachments – Kisser, Seducer, and Pleaser.

 

Sliquid Naturals Silver Studio Collection Glass Bottle

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Premium silicone lubricant in a discrete perfume-style bottle.

Sliquid Naturals Silver is a pharmaceutical grade silicone personal lubricant, and is Sliquid’s Premium formulation.

Silver is super long-lasting and 100% waterproof, and is the perfect choice for those who need a lubricant to last.

Made from an ultra concentrated blend of three pharmaceutical grade silicones, Silver will last for hours with only a few drops, and is easy to clean up with simple soap and water (except from some sheets & clothing!).

All Sliquid products are formulated by sensitive women, for sensible women.

 

Maia Skyler Bendable Rabbit

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With double 15 function motors, a bendable shaft, and a bendable clitoral stimulator, Skyler sets the stage for a completely customized experience.

The silky silicone body is slender, then flares out slightly to end in a rounded tip that features pleasure ridges for extra stimulation. It is bendable and poseable, so you can easily find the shape that’s right for your body.

The clitoral stimulator is also poseable, and offers a wide, full coverage surface the scoops in for even more contact, ending in a flickering pinpoint tip.

Double motors, one in the shaft and one in the stimulator, offer simultaneous vibrations in 15 modes of  escalation and pulse patterns, controlled with a simple 3-utton interface located on the golden handle.

The USB rechargeable Skyler comes with its own storage bag, and is submersible for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.

 

Shunga Oriental Crystals Organic Dead Sea Bath Salt

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Use these lagoon green or ocean blue bath salts that provide velvety, skin-smoothing bubbles, to create an oasis of relaxation. Light the included floating candle to enhance your bliss.

 

Jimmyjane Afterglow Massage & Body Oil Candle

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Light. Pour. Enjoy.

Set your mood. Sexy candlelight with a sensual scent, Afterglow engages all the senses. The skin-nourishing formula liquifies into a rich, warm massage oil. The designer-inspired porcelain container warms the candle evenly, while natural soy allows for perfect temperature control.

Elevate every massage experience. Luxury candles to illuminate your life and add warmth to your presence. Our natural soy-based formula burns clean and warms to body temperature, creating an element of sensual heat to every massage. live sexy.

 

ZALO Queen Set PulseWave G-Spot Vibrator & Suction Sleeve

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Inspired by Cleopatra herself, the luxurious Queen is a beautiful force to be reckoned with.

Coated in proprietary Softek Dow Corning silicone accented with a golden “necklace” embellished with a sparkling crystal, the body offers an ergonomic shape that ends in a wide flattened tip with raised ring pattern for maximum G-spot contact and stimulation.

Queen offers 8 modes of vibration, pulsation, and escalation via a powerful yet quiet motor. The tip houses an exclusive PulseWave motor that provides a combination of tapping, friction, and pressure to the G-Spot with a piston-like wave motion that acts like the rising and falling of a lover’s fingertips.

Apply the included suction accessory sleeve to turn Queen into a targeted clitoral or nipple stimulator. When contained within the accessory sleeve, the PulseWave motor produces a sensation of gentle suction, tapping, and pressure waves to stimulate like no other.

For additional comfort and sensual arousal, Queen is designed to safely warm up before use with an intelligent 107° Fahrenheit (42° Celsius) pre-heating temperature control that activates with a button at the base.


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Kinkly’s Ideas To Celebrate the Clitoris: 7 Suction-Based Sex Toys To Try

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Takeaway: Suction can deliver powerful sensation – and orgasms.

If there’s a recent trend that’s really taken off in sex toys over the past few years, it’s suction. And it’s no surprise. If you have a clitoris and have been on the receiving end of clitoral suction, whether from a toy or an obliging partner, you understand the powerful orgasms this sensation can deliver.

Suction helps draw blood into the clitoris while gently stimulating it, often without vibration – or even touching it at all! It can also stimulate deep into the clitoral complex which, for some people, delivers the most powerful orgasms they’ve ever experienced.

Plus, for those who are sensitive to vibrations, the sensation of suction can be a welcome change, one that often leaves your body begging for more, more, more.

Looking to give a suction-based sex toy a try? Here are seven that’ll have you celebrating the clitoris!


ZALO Queen PulseWave G-Spot Vibrator and Suction Sleeve

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When it comes to suction-based sex toys, the ZALO Queen is both two-in-one and one-of-a-kind. It’s a both well-shaped G-spot vibrator AND a clitoral stimulator. Use the G-spotter on its own, or place the suction sleeve over it for targeted nipple or clitoral stimulation. The Queen even warms to 107 degrees before use. It’s one of the most unique and luxurious sex toys we’ve seen this year.

See the entire article and the rest of the list on Kinkly.com


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Luxe treats for that very special person – YOU.

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Galentine’s Day and Valentine’s Day are the perfect time to treat yourself to a luxe little somethin’ somethin’, don’t ya think?

Here are some great pleasure products that are lavish, luxurious, and sumptuous to help you spoil the most important person – yourself.


ZALO Lolita Baby Heart App-Enabled Personal Massager

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Take control of your passion with the incomparable Lolita Baby Heart luxury personal massager by ZALO USA. Created for love and beauty, the Baby Heart whole body massager has been designed and modeled to fit intimately to sensitive areas arousing the throb of passion.

Baby Heart’s body is silky smooth and has an ergonomic shape that sits comfortably in the hand. The slightly rounded body and discrete heart shape allows for multiple uses –  use as an all-over body massager, apply it directly to your sweet spot for broader coverage, or rest the dip of the heart curves on either side of the clitoris for sensation in stereo.

 

Exposed Nocturnal Rechargeable Lipstick Vibe

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This sexy little lipstick vibe plays hard! 

The intensity of the 10 deep, rumbly vibrating functions will have you wonder how so much power was packed into such a petite package.

Nocturnal is USB rechargeable, waterproof, easy to clean and a perfect travel companion.

We feel confident this powerful, satin smooth little luxury toy will be your reason to stay up all night!

 

Icicles No. 75 Heart Plug by Pipedream Products

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Elegant, upscale, and hand-crafted with amazing attention to detail, this luxurious glass massager will leave you breathless. Each hand-blown Icicle glass wand is sleek, unique, and made to play hard.

The narrow shaft offers a rounded tip and dramatic widening in the center, and ends in a heart-shaped base that’s wide enough to act as a stopper for safety.

The hypoallergenic glass is nonporous and body safe, and when cared for properly, is designed to last a lifetime. Run the wand under warm water  or chill it under cold water  for a cool sensation.

Since glass is nonporous, cleanup is a snap. Use your favorite toy cleaner and warm water, or put it in the dishwasher for a worry-free wash after the fun.

 

Mimic PLUS

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Contoured to fit easily and comfortably into the palm of your hand, MIMIC + PLUS extends dynamic and powerful vibrations to any part that begs for it without getting in your way.

The body of MIMIC + PLUS provides a resonating motor that maintains its intensity – even when pressure is applied. With its precision tip and generous wings, you can achieve targeted pleasure or a teasing wave of reverberation.

MIMIC + Plus is FAR MORE INTENSE than its beloved predecessor, the original MIMIC. The body is also a touch larger, more bulbous, and slightly heavier, all due to the brand-new motor that is far more powerful than the original. A stronger rechargeable battery is being utilized to support the new motor.

Easily navigate pleasure in the dark with the LED Beacon that also serves as a charging indicator, so you’ll never lose the moment. The versatility of MIMIC + PLUS is up to you – how will you share your deepest secret?

The USB rechargeable MIMIC + Plus arrives in a sleek and luxurious keepsake box, and  is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.

 

Amour by Jopen

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Amour is a beautifully designed collection of Silicone massagers and bullets, made with love.

Covered in luxurious pink Satin Finish Silicone offset perfectly by rose gold metallic accents, all four AMOUR products truly stand out. Offering seven intense functions of vibration, pulsation and escalation, along with five incremental speeds for each of the fun functions, Amour is built to please in more ways than one.

Each style also offers its own unique features:

Remote Bullet – Adorable, heart-shaped cordless controller with an innovative stimulator. Plus the bullet can be operated up to 16.5 feet away using the remote

Mini G – Perfectly petite massager with a pronounced G-spot curve

Wand Massager – Full body massager with distinct pleasure ridges for an exceptional sexual experience

Dual G Wand – Incredibly powerful dual motored massager that is ergonomically curved for maximum enjoyment

Each of these stunning toys is whisper quiet, entirely submersible in water, USB rechargeable and is backed by a one-year warranty.

 

ZALO Versailles Rosalie App-Enabled Rabbit Vibrator with 24K Gold Accents

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With the Versailles Collection, it’s all about the luxurious details. Inspired by the boudoirs of Paris, Rosalie offers exquisite styling and superior performance.

Rosalie’s body is silky smooth and has an ergonomic shaft with a gentle curve and a light raised ridge detail for extra stimulation. The clitoral stimulator mimics the shape of the shaft to provide maximum pleasure inside and out.

On the handle you’ll find French inspired embossing, as well as an end cap featuring 24K Gold plating decorated with hand-applied jewelry-grade enamel detailing. Adding to the luxurious look of the massager is the swinging 24K gold plated pendant, which not only looks stunning but conceals the USB charging port, and when in place makes Rosalie waterproof and submersible.

Rosalie’s two whisper-quiet motors provide eight modes of vibration, pulsation, and escalation each. Get even more features with the free ZALO Remote App*.

The USB rechargeable Versailles Rosalie is rated ipx7 waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.

 

Lelo Insignia Soraya

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Exquisite Pleasure Both Inside & Out.

For the girl who wants it all and refuses to compromise, SORAYA blends beauty and brawn for complete satisfaction, time and time again.

Enjoy the intense pleasure of simultaneous G-spot and clitoral stimulation with the world’s most exclusive dual-action massager, redefining and enriching the classic rabbit vibrator design with that unmistakable touch of luxury.

 

Shibari BESO

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Don’t think of BESO as “just” a clitoral suction toy – there are no limits!

BESO differs from other oral suction toys by focusing on the overall oral experience.

It was designed to be used just as much for foreplay as it was for giving orgasms! Think: Clitoral, Nipples, inner thighs, neck/chest, etc. Each of the 8 functions mimics a different aspect of oral stimulation –  Suction, breaths of air, light kisses, and light blowing on the skin – so you can continually mix up and create new experiences and scenarios.

It’s friendly to all clitoral sizes without having to worry about changing sizes or extra attachments. The larger opening allows for more air to help with suction, which is part of what makes BESO so strong. Having  a greater overall circumference to adhere to body parts makes this an excellent for foreplay tool for both women and men.

BESO is great for edge play, cupping, nipple fetish play, latex sensation play, and you can keep a continual suction feeling by slowly moving BESO over lubricated skin surfaces.

 

Svakom Keri Contoured Massager

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Keri  – the new standard in luxury stimulators – has a slim body and a unique semi-arched massage tip that contains a motor to provide 5 pattern of vibration that you can enjoy at 5 different speeds. Choose your mode and intensity using the single button located on the handle.

The perfectly contoured head makes Keri perfect for either G-spot stimulation or full coverage clitoral massage.

Dressed in silky silicone accented with elegant stainless steel details, the rechargeable and whisper quiet Keri is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.


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Galentine’s Gifts For Your Besties

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Galentine’s Day is that special time celebrated the day before Valentine’s Day that’s set aside to celebrate the friend-love you have for your girlfriends.

This mini-holiday was first introduced to us in a 2010 episode of Parks & Recreation. As Leslie explained it: “Every February 13, my ladyfriends and I leave our husbands and our boyfriends at home, and we just come and kick it, breakfast-style. Ladies celebrating ladies. It’s like Lilith Fair, minus the angst. Plus frittatas.”

The idea of celebrating friendship isn’t new, but the idea of Galentine’s Day struck a chord amongst women, and the holiday took off with a bullet. You can probably find a few places in your neighborhood that offer Galentine’s Day celebrations.

So, mark February 13th on the calendar and grab your best gal pals.  Rejoice in that love and affection that’s like no other, because your ladies are your light and should be honored accordingly.

Indigo Honey has curated a special gift section in honor of this great holiday. Here are some of my very favorites from the collection:


Coochy Rash-Free Shave Crème

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Everyone’s Favorite Rash-Free Shave Cream!

The World-Famous Coochy is formulated with jojoba plus skin & hair conditioning agents for an extra smooth, rash-free shave every time.

What makes Coochy different is it contains hair softeners. Normally when you shave, your razor grabs the hair, pulls it, then cuts it, leaving behind a little nub to go back under the skin. That’s what causes red bumps, rashes, and ingrown hairs.

Coochy softens the hair so your razor can cut it without pulling, leaving you with a clean, smooth, rash-free shave. As a bonus, because your razor doesn’t have to work so hard, it actually lasts longer.

Coochy is safe to use anywhere on the body, including legs, arms, underarms, intimate areas, head, and even the face.

 

Simply Sexy Love Pheromone Infused Perfume

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Simply Sexy Love is a pheromone perfume designed to entice and arouse while providing the ultimate sex appeal.

It mixes with each woman’s pH and pheromone output to develop her natural sexual scent and increase the naturally-occurring body pheromone output from the wearer.

Fragrance: A blend of Sungoddess Rose, Marigold, Ginger, Chamomile Oil, Yellow Freesia, White Violet, Lotus Flower, Day Lily, Patchouli, Oakmoss, Musk combine to evoke the timeless essence of falling in love.

 

Wine Scented Bath Bomb Set

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A set of sweet smelling wine-scented bath bombs packaged in a fashionable, hard-plastic wine glass.

Immerse yourself in the experience by enjoying a glass of your favorite refreshment with a dip in the tub.

Includes 8 bath bombs in an assortment of three intoxicating scents – Shiraz, Chardonnay, or Sangria – that arrive individually wrapped.

 

Booty Parlor Kissaholic Aphrodisiac Lip Gloss

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This sheer sparkling pink looks fairy-princess perfect on everyone. With just a hint of color,Tremble layers perfectly on any lipstick or complements a bare-faced natural look. Tastes of delicious frosted peppermint. This high-shine, non-tacky gloss softens and enhances lips with superb shine and color.

Shea Butter and Vitamin E gently nourish and moisturize your lips, while natural plumping ingredients Ginger Root Oil and Chili Fruit Extract boosts circulation to increase your lip’s volume for a fuller, sexier, more kissable pout.

Kissholic is infused with an exotic blend of South American aphrodisiacs including including Ginkgo Biloba, Ginger, Passion flower, damiana, muira puama designed to inspire your desire, inspire your desire.

 

Kixies Sandra Red Fishnet Thigh-High Stockings

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No regrets in these red nets.

Red fishnet thigh-high stockings with a no-slip grip.

Kix’ies is here to start a thigh high revolution!

No one likes how regular tights put the squeeze on you! And who doesn’t breathe a huge sigh of relief when they’re peeled off after a long day?

Enter Kix’ies … Their no-sip grip keeps them in place without the uncomfortable high-waisted band squeezing at your belly all day! There are four sizes to choose from and you size by thigh circumference to get the perfect fit.

Frustrated with thigh highs that just won’t stay up? Kix’ies are guaranteed to stay in place with their unique no-slip grip.

So kick your bulky, unflattering tights to the curb and fall in love with Kix’ies!

 

Shunga Exotic Fruit Sensual Bath & Shower Gel

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Shunga’s bathing gel gently washes your skin with a luxurious lather that softens your skin with vitamin E and other nourishing oils to leave your skin soft and silky.

The aroma of Exotic Fruits feeds the soul as it pampers your skin.

 

Shunga Moonlight Bath Sea Salt Crystals

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Use these lagoon green, ocean blue, royal purple, or rich pink salts, that provide velvety, skin-smoothing bubbles, to create an oasis of relaxation.

 

Kama Sutra Honey Dust Body Powder

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This kissable, moisture-wicking body powder leaves skin silky-soft and delicately scented.

There are so many uses, including:

As part of your daily regimen – Dust onto the body before dressing to stay cool and dry all day long. Be sure to remove any excess dust if wearing light-colored clothing to avoid staining.

For beautiful hair – Use as a dry shampoo by massaging a small amount into dry hair at the roots- leaving it clean, volumized, and smelling amazing.

With your partner – Use the flirty feather applicator to dust Honey Dust onto the body and follow with kisses.

 

Chocolate ON Arousal Oil

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What list this time of year would be complete without a touch of chocolate? ON Chocolate Arousal Oil from Sensuva offers women natural clitoral stimulation that feels like vibration and pulsation when it’s applied – plus it has the scent and flavor of delicious chocolate!

Intended to stimulate the clitoris, ON Arousal Oil will get the job done with just a small amount. Simply apply one or two drops of the arousal oil onto the clitoris, wait, and add more if you seek a stronger intensity. Regardless of why you may be experiencing dryness and/or lacking orgasm, this arousal oil will help you get the sexual response you want so that you’re having your best orgasms yet.

The added chocolate element acts as an aphrodisiac to enhance your experience.

 

Maia Crystal Gems ROXIE 10-Function Lipstick Vibrator

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Diamonds used to be a girl’s best friend, but that was before Roxie.

The ultimate in discretion, Roxie makes the perfect travel companion and hides discreetly in your purse,  makeup bag, or even left out on your dresser or vanity.

Remove the metallic diamond-textured cap to reveal the soft, silicone vibrator disguised as your favorite lipstick. That precision tip offers both a pinpoint tip and a full contact slanted surface, allowing you to choose the right fit for your mood.

The powerful motor delivers 10 functions of vibration, pulsation, and escalation at the press of the gem button located on the bottom of the base.

The USB rechargeable Roxie Lipstick Vibe is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.


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Kinkly’s Tips on How to Use a Dildo

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Takeaway: The fact that dildos are such a simple sex toy is exactly what makes them great. Experiment your way to ecstasy!

 

We’d like to apologize. We’ve been remiss.

While we have lots of content on how to buy and use all kinds of different sex toys, we’ve never written a piece on how to use a dildo.

It seems simple, right?

But then again, what should you actually do with a dildo when it comes right down to it? How do you use a dildo?

As it turns out, rather a lot of you have been wondering just that. So, here is a comprehensive look at how to use a dildo.

 

See the entire article on Kinkly.com


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Black & White Elegance!

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New Year’s Eve is almost here, and that makes me think of celebrations, champagne, and getting dressed to the nines.

With that in mind, may I present to you our newest Seasonal Collection – Black & White Elegance.

Inspired by the look and feel of formalwear, these items will bring a little fanciness to your playtime, and help you ring in the new year in style!

Here are my top ten favorites, in no particular order, and you can see the whole collection here.


Satisfyer Pro 3 Vibration

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Successor to the Satisfyer pressure-wave stimulators popular around the world, the Satisfyer Pro 3 Vibration offers a new design and adds in sensual vibrations for an even more stimulating experience.  The new shape helps you accurately place the silky soft stimulation head over your clitoris or nipple, and the larger tip lets you more fully experience the Satisfyer Magic.

 

Callie Vibrating Rechargeable Dual Massager

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Designed to bring elegance to the bedroom, the fluid, modern shape of the rechargeable Callie Dual Massager provides power and style.

The virtually seamless ivory Satin Finish silicone is accented with a gold base. 7 Rumbling functions with 5 independent speeds found in the dual motors are powered by a luxury gemstone at the base.

Offering vibrations at the tip and also in the stimulator, your most sensitive spots are sure to get the attention they deserve. The Callie Dual Massager is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.

 

Wet Elite Femme Silicone Luxury Lubricant

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Formulated especially for women by women, Wet Elite Femme Silicone is long-lasting, luxurious, and designed to enhance a woman’s natural moisture.

It is recommended for those with sensitive skin, and is ultra-moisturizing, leaving you soothingly silky and supple, even under water.

 

Kix’ies Fishnet Thigh Highs

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Fishnets are always in fashion, and Kix’ies’ version offers no-sip grip keeps them in place without the uncomfortable high-waisted band squeezing at your belly all day! There are four sizes to choose from and you size by thigh circumference to get the perfect fit.

 

Hype Flexi-Wand Poseable Super Slim Vibrator

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Embrace multi-directional pleasure and let the versatile Hype Flexi Wand take care of all your needs. The ultra-flexible body, slim design and 10 vibration functions are sure to tease and please you just the way you like.

The high-powered 10-function vibrator is completely bendable and poseable, with multi-directional positioning to let you control sensation with ease. Twist and flex this petite massager your ideal position and embrace truly orgasmic bliss!

Shibari Halo

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The HALO is a full-sized ultra-power massager with a sleek, modern design.

The smooth silicone head offers broad stimulation, and sits on a neck that’s flexible to move with you.

A special high-strength motor provides 10 modes of vibration, pulsation, and escalation at the touch of the button on the handle, allowing you to fine tune your massage experience.

 

LELO Nea 2

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Beautiful to behold, beautiful to be held, NEA 2 is exquisite both solo or shared, with its discreet design perfect for nestling between partners, while strong vibrations and  intricate floral detailing enhance your sensual experience. 100% waterproof and rechargeable, with 8 stimulation patterns – NEA 2 places powerful pleasure in the palm of your hand.

 

Gvibe² Rechargeable Anatomical Massager

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Gvibe²  boasts 3 powerful motors, 2 in the tips and 1 in the shaft. Gvibe² is not only beautiful, but features a revolutionary design. Its shape adapts to each anatomy individually, and the 3 motors with 6 modes of vibration provide simultaneous stimulation of 3 sensitive spots – the G‑Spot, the opposite wall of vagina and the entrance of vagina and clitoris.

 

Bijoux Indiscrets Mimi Skin Jewelry

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Mimi is a body ornament specifically designed to turn a woman’s body in to the center of attention.

The self-adhesive silicon base lets Mimi adapt to all types of breasts and show them off. Plus, they are easy to put on and take off. Perfect to wear under your favorite lingerie, or just on their own.

 

Shunga Secret Garden Orgasm Cream

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Discover new sensations that may take you to the limits! Excite your Secret Garden with this female orgasm enhancing cream by Shunga.

The unique dual enzyme formula increases sensation, resulting in more stimulation and pleasure when touched. Since every woman is different, you may want to experiment with different amounts depending on your sensitivity level. Use it for your own pleasure or to reach new heights with your partner.


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Kinkly’s 5 Tips for Finding That Elusive ‘Nipplegasm’

 

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Photo credit: Kinkly

Takeaway: Nipplegasms aren’t common, but even if you don’t make it all the way to O-town, playing with them can still be a lot of fun.

 

I’m sure you’ve heard of the elusive nipplegasm: the idea that a person can orgasm just from stimulation of the nipples. Not limited to a single gender, nipplegasms can be experienced by anyone with sensitive nipple tissue. Nipplegasms aren’t common, but even if you don’t make it all the way to O-town, playing with them can still be a lot of fun.

Some people find that nipple stimulation with the hands is enough stimulation for orgasm. If that’s you, that’s great! However, you wouldn’t be here if the idea of nipple toys didn’t appeal to you. Even if you’ve been unable to experience a nipplegasm before, you might want to see if sex toys can help make the experience hotter. Not only can some of these toys increase the sensitivity of the nipples, but they can provide hands-free stimulation of the nipples while you choose to focus on other areas. Here are some tips on how to zero-in on that elusive nipple orgasm.

Nipple Pumps

Suction feels fabulous on other sensitive areas, so why not try the nipples? Nipple pumps are pumping toys that can be used to create this sensation. With a hollow chamber pressed firmly onto the nipples, the suction pump is used to remove air from the chamber – which provides suction onto the nipples and helps engorge the nipple with blood. Much like the penis, a fully erect and fully engorged nipple tends to be more sensitive to any type of stimulation you want to give it.

Nipple suction toys
These vacuum nipple suckers are simple, inexpensive and can be sensational fun. Get them at Indigo Honey.

 

Read the rest of 5 Tips for Finding That Elusive ‘Nipplegasm’ at Kinkly.com 


 

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