The Best Grinding Toys for Full Vulva Pleasure

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Not that into penetrative sex toys? No problem! The latest pleasure trend is all about your clitoris and vulva with vibrators made for bumpin’ and grindin.’

Grind-able vibrators are a whole new niche in sex toy design that was way overdue. We already knew the clitoris was queen, but grinding toys bring a whole new meaning to external orgasms.

Caressing the labia, humping the pelvic bone against cushion-y soft silicone, and rubbing the entirety of a lubed-up vulva against vibrating ridges and bumps are in a sensually delicious category all their own.

If you prefer vibration-assisted humping over penetrative activities, grinding sex toys are the answer to your self-love prayers. We’ve gathered a handful of our favorite pleasure devices that skip sticking it in (and a couple that’ll work with dildos or during sex, too) in favor of massaging your vulva like you’ve never experienced before (at least not with a vibrator, anyway).

Lust Remote Control Dual Rider

The Lust by CalExotics is a luxury, saddle-style vibrator made to rumble down under. Lust features 2 independent motors nestled under soft and comfortable silicone humps with gentle, ridged texture.

Lay down the Lust vibrator on your bed, a couch or chair, or anywhere you dare to grind away. The Lust’s remote control switches between 12 different vibration modes, and you can even control each motor separately.

Strip off your undies to feel the sublime vibrations and texture of Lust against a bare, lubed-up vulva. You can even ride Lust with your panties or jeans on!


Enby 2 Flexible, Rechargeable Vibrator

The Enby 2 by Wildflower Sex might look like a bicycle seat, but this grinding pad does everything except crush your genitals until they’re numb.

Enby 2 is quite possibly the most versatile, external sex toy ever. You can shove it down the front of your underwear and hump it, plop it down on a pillow and grind on it, or even fold it over the arm of your couch and screw it.

The super-duper flexible, silicone Enby 2 vibrates with 3 speeds and 3 patterns. Flip Enby 2 on its back to discover a row of ridges for extra stimulation. And don’t forget the lube!

Leaf+ Spirit Panty Vibe

Small, discreet, and perfectly shaped for clitoral grinding, the Leaf+ Spirit is designed to chill in your underwear and rumble your clit, hands-free style.

Leaf +Spirit provides slightly more direct vibrations to the clitoris than the Enby 2 via its slender, slim width. Spirit delivers 7 different vibration modes altogether, composed of 3 pattern modes and 4 speed intensities.

What we especially love about the Leaf+ Spirit is that, similar to the Enby 2, it’s completely flexible with no hard, inner core, so you can grind to your heart’s content without bruising your pubic bone.

Liberator Humphrey Sex Toy Pillow

Remember the good ol’ days of humping a pillow, long before you grew your sex toy collection? Liberator is bringing (grinding) sexy back with the Humphrey sex toy pillow, a cushion made just for holding your favorite vibrators in a hump-friendly position.

The Liberator Humphrey is your high school BFF reinvented. Covered in soft, washable and removable fabric, Humphrey has 2 differently sized pockets to hold whatever vibrators, wands, or dongs you can stick inside.

Use Humphrey to combine vulva grinding and penetration by stuffing one of the pockets with a vibrating dildo and then adding the Enby 2 or Leaf+ Spirit vibrator underneath your vulva. You can also stick with external stim by tucking a vibe into the pocket and then sealing it off inside.

Screaming O Charged Rub-It! Grinding Vibe

Ideal for solo grinding or wide-contact clitoral stim during couples play, the Rub-It! By Screaming O is a hand-held vibrator that hits all your external pleasure spots at once.

Small enough to hold between 2 fingers, but large enough to vibrate your entire vulva area (even up towards the pubic bone!), Rub-It features a whopping 20 vibration modes.

Try tucking the Rub-It between a couple of pillows, nestle it in a pile of blankets, or shove it into the sealing pocket of the Liberator Humphrey sex toy pillow.


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