By Tiffy Kink (guest Sex Blogger/ Sex Toy Reviewer) of Aquakink.com
Hookups are meant be an exciting new adventure that can be fun and pleasure-filled for both parties involved. However, if you fail to plan, you plan to fail – Meaning, you may not get to enjoy your hookup the way you want to if you don’t bring the right stuff.
So here is a list of 4 things you should bring with you that can help lead to a successful hook-up.
1 – Consent and a Positive Attitude
Of course it’s a given that you’re going to hookup with someone that consent is already assumed right?
But consent is not just about meeting up and getting’ it on. It’s also about all the stuff in between. The different styles of sex you or your partner may want to have or new things they or you may want to try that may be unfamiliar.
Consent is also about having a clear line of communication and not being afraid to let your partner know what you want, when you want it, how you want it, and when you have had enough. Consent is the most important aspect to a successful hookup.
2 – Condoms
Another given, especially if you’re hooking up with someone and you don’t know their status or you do know their status.
Condoms are great for protection against pregnancy, STD’s, and STI’s. Picking out condoms can be a little tricky if you don’t know the size of your partner, he is well-endowed, or you just don’t know what he likes.
When in doubt, ask your partner what condoms he likes or simply ask him to buy some. No shame in asking.
Here are my condom recommendation(s).
3 – Lube
Lube makes everything sexier.
It makes sex more slippery (in a good way of course!), more comfortable, and even more delicious. Adding lube to sex just makes things better. Adding too much lube on the other hand, can make things sticky and too slippery to enjoy the all fun. So always remember the golden rule: Always start with a little, then add more if needed.
Here are my lube recommendations.
4 – A Vibrator
Sex toys are great for spicing things up in the bedroom or wherever you plan to get it on.
Vibrators are great for adding some extra stimulation to you and your partner’s favorite pleasure zones or even experiencing new sensations and finding new sweet spots together.
Here are my personal recommendations:
Always remember that having a positive attitude usually leads to getting a positive outcome. Keeping the door open for communication and open-mindedness is key. Know your limits and don’t be afraid to express them to your partner. Always practice safe sex.
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